My last day in Israel I spend now in Tel Aviv to go along the beach and to think over the last three weeks. I got so many impressions and I saw so many places and people outside the tourism and I know I will come again and for the future I will become a jewish woman and an Israeli and I will look for an orthodox man also for the future. I think this is a good way to go along the future. All day praying at the kotel made me sure and I know there I was in a good home, and I heard people there and this makes me happy but also sad, because I miss them.
When I go home tomorrow and I am at home I will write more about Jerusalem but also about the society and I will finally continue about the children welfare.
Calltec
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Mittwoch, 5. Dezember 2007
Mittwoch, 28. November 2007
Still in Jerusalem
Still in Jerusalem and a few days I have to spend here and I hope that it will work good.I pray many time on kotel and that it is for me good although sometimes like this morning I was not concentrated and then I feel unsatisfied. I have not seen that people who I wanted and that makes me sad but I hope I can inspite of this.
You cannot konvert to judaism in three weeks but I know now what to do when I come back again, because I will become hard-biten like leather.
However what can I tell now :Shalom, Salemaleikum, Gruess G-tt and sleep you well in your Eierbettgestell.
Calltec
You cannot konvert to judaism in three weeks but I know now what to do when I come back again, because I will become hard-biten like leather.
However what can I tell now :Shalom, Salemaleikum, Gruess G-tt and sleep you well in your Eierbettgestell.
Calltec
Sonntag, 25. November 2007
To be in Jerusalem
A few weeks ago I told that I would travel to jerusalem. Well I am now since one week here and I am full of impression so I think i will write more posts when I am back to Germany. My conlusion is if you would convert to judaism you have to do it here in Israel because in Germany or in Europe it means a ticket to synagogue and back, but the real jewish life is not only synagogue is also the living in the life. If you love the reality you love Israel and judaism, it is not easy and it is a desicion for your whole life. For me personally I made the decision to convert to judaism and to live for ever in Israel but at first I have to look after my children, when they are really independet then I can go.Every woman with little children has to make her desicion alone how much power she can spend.
On shabbat so many groups are praying and singing and I made three times Lecha Dodi, so I really made Shabbat. After that all groups were away and I ate alone a little bit of my challa. So you have also to be independet and to run to some groups and to try your best. It is really an adventure or surprise, you need strong nerves.However, I love Jerusalem and Judaism and synagogues and people and the country. On shabbat morning I found a nice synagogue and my shabbat was really beautiful.
The kotel is a beautiful and holy place and I love it in the early morning and in the late evening.It is a wonderful place.
For all people it is a good thing to come to Israel.
Calltec
On shabbat so many groups are praying and singing and I made three times Lecha Dodi, so I really made Shabbat. After that all groups were away and I ate alone a little bit of my challa. So you have also to be independet and to run to some groups and to try your best. It is really an adventure or surprise, you need strong nerves.However, I love Jerusalem and Judaism and synagogues and people and the country. On shabbat morning I found a nice synagogue and my shabbat was really beautiful.
The kotel is a beautiful and holy place and I love it in the early morning and in the late evening.It is a wonderful place.
For all people it is a good thing to come to Israel.
Calltec
Dienstag, 23. Oktober 2007
Parenting Groups in USA
Parenting Groups in USA are a good Idea to avoid to loose the children and the pains which are connected with it. In Germany we have groups for single mothers founded by mothers self or by govermental youth welfare. They have good offers but not similar like parental groups which offers a wide area of different education help via online. Parental groups offer courses to educate the mothers about food, health, toys,security in swimming pools, to manage their children in different ways, they presentate also videos or connect the mothers so they have the possibilities for communication.
Interesting is that not only persons like padagogic or pschologists can make foundrising such a group also parents or single mothers can found a parenting group together with schools or kindergarden. There are different ways to get nonprofit moneys, that means all money they get from affiliate programs or from supporters and companies goes stright away to the groups or school or kindergarden.
Many opportunities of parenting groups and the advantage is that you can work independet, reasonable and conscious for your children in the most important years of kindergarden and schools, bcause the most problems, especially for single mothers, are in that times and the danger to loose the children also. Single mothers have to beare a lot of prejudice and to found a parenting group is a chance to fight. The situation and society structure with its thinking is a reality and often we have to work with this reality. we can cry, we can struggle and we can fight, the way how we do it perhaps can change the situation.
www.momsrising.org
www.cafemom.com
www.PTOtoday.com
Calltec
Interesting is that not only persons like padagogic or pschologists can make foundrising such a group also parents or single mothers can found a parenting group together with schools or kindergarden. There are different ways to get nonprofit moneys, that means all money they get from affiliate programs or from supporters and companies goes stright away to the groups or school or kindergarden.
Many opportunities of parenting groups and the advantage is that you can work independet, reasonable and conscious for your children in the most important years of kindergarden and schools, bcause the most problems, especially for single mothers, are in that times and the danger to loose the children also. Single mothers have to beare a lot of prejudice and to found a parenting group is a chance to fight. The situation and society structure with its thinking is a reality and often we have to work with this reality. we can cry, we can struggle and we can fight, the way how we do it perhaps can change the situation.
www.momsrising.org
www.cafemom.com
www.PTOtoday.com
Calltec
Sonntag, 21. Oktober 2007
The color of water
The Color of water is written by James McBride, autobiographically, very interesting , a tribute to the life of his mother Ruth , a jewish polish immigrant, who had never time to think about race or idendity.
Calltec
Calltec
Mittwoch, 17. Oktober 2007
children welfare in Cuba
As good as the laws acoording to the children welfare are as much the laws differ to the practise. In Germany and in USA as well you can hear voices of critic in point of implementing the law to children welfare.However also in Cuba I could read a lot of critic but I was surprised about the positive report from Unicef. But at first I will write the few statements of children life.
In the Constitution of the Republic of Cuba their family, motherhood and marriage are under the protection of the state. Only marriages authorizid by officials having legal capacity to effect them are valid. Civil marriage is gratiutous and shall be recognized by the law.
The married woman enjoys the full advantages of equal civil capacity, with no necessity for marital permission or authoization in oder to manage property, freely to engage in trade, to enter industry or a profession, to an art, to hold office, and to dispose of the product of her work.
Allowances for support in favour of the woman and the children shall enjoy preference with respect to all other obligations and this preference may not be derogated by any condition of unatachability of property, salary, pension or economic investment of any kind whatever.
Parents are obliged to support ,tend, educate and instruct their children and the latter to respect and assist their parents.(In Germany we don´t have a clause for children to assist their parents with respect)The law shall the fulfillment of these duties with guarantees and adequate penalties.
Children born out of wedlock to a person who at the time of conception may have been able to contract marriage, have the same rights and duties as are stipulated in the preceding paragraph wedlock. except for what the law prescribes in regard to inheritance. The law shall regulate the investigation of paternity.
RCW Representing Children Worldwide writes that some form of a child protective legal process exists in Cuba but is seems unclearly exactly what the child protective entails.Further they mentioned the U:N: Committee on the Rights of the Child with the notice that the views of children in family and social life are insufficient. They also mentioned the very famous case of Elian Gonzalez II who was allowed to take back his daughter to Cuba.You can read: In Controversial Elian Gonzalez II Case, Cuban Father Should be allowed to take his Daughter Back to Cuba. Written by Mike McCormick and Glenn Sacks.
Data from UNICEF The children of Cuba
Since 1959 Cuba has progressively established a national system of day care centers and educational programs, also preschool programs.
A recent study were used Mortality of children under 5 years old
weight of children according to age and height
Number attending schools
Possibility of acquiring AIDS
Possibility of danger due to armed conflict
In this study 144 countries participated. Cuba was on place 28. 27 Countries were better than Cuba.Cuba has an infant mortality rate of 7.2, it is one of the lowest in the world
98% of the children under the age of two are vaccinated for childhood deseases.
Cuba has one doctor for every 172 person.
Cuba has an average of 4.9 pediatrician visits per child under 1 year old.
Calltec
In the Constitution of the Republic of Cuba their family, motherhood and marriage are under the protection of the state. Only marriages authorizid by officials having legal capacity to effect them are valid. Civil marriage is gratiutous and shall be recognized by the law.
The married woman enjoys the full advantages of equal civil capacity, with no necessity for marital permission or authoization in oder to manage property, freely to engage in trade, to enter industry or a profession, to an art, to hold office, and to dispose of the product of her work.
Allowances for support in favour of the woman and the children shall enjoy preference with respect to all other obligations and this preference may not be derogated by any condition of unatachability of property, salary, pension or economic investment of any kind whatever.
Parents are obliged to support ,tend, educate and instruct their children and the latter to respect and assist their parents.(In Germany we don´t have a clause for children to assist their parents with respect)The law shall the fulfillment of these duties with guarantees and adequate penalties.
Children born out of wedlock to a person who at the time of conception may have been able to contract marriage, have the same rights and duties as are stipulated in the preceding paragraph wedlock. except for what the law prescribes in regard to inheritance. The law shall regulate the investigation of paternity.
RCW Representing Children Worldwide writes that some form of a child protective legal process exists in Cuba but is seems unclearly exactly what the child protective entails.Further they mentioned the U:N: Committee on the Rights of the Child with the notice that the views of children in family and social life are insufficient. They also mentioned the very famous case of Elian Gonzalez II who was allowed to take back his daughter to Cuba.You can read: In Controversial Elian Gonzalez II Case, Cuban Father Should be allowed to take his Daughter Back to Cuba. Written by Mike McCormick and Glenn Sacks.
Data from UNICEF The children of Cuba
Since 1959 Cuba has progressively established a national system of day care centers and educational programs, also preschool programs.
A recent study were used Mortality of children under 5 years old
weight of children according to age and height
Number attending schools
Possibility of acquiring AIDS
Possibility of danger due to armed conflict
In this study 144 countries participated. Cuba was on place 28. 27 Countries were better than Cuba.Cuba has an infant mortality rate of 7.2, it is one of the lowest in the world
98% of the children under the age of two are vaccinated for childhood deseases.
Cuba has one doctor for every 172 person.
Cuba has an average of 4.9 pediatrician visits per child under 1 year old.
Calltec
Donnerstag, 4. Oktober 2007
broken arm
unfortunedly I broked my arm and I am lying in hospital Therefore I am not able to write a new post. I hope I am able to write soon more about children welfare in different countries.I am happy, that I have children who take care for me ,a very new feeling because still 9 days ago this part was on me.
Oh, it is also a disaster not to be able to be at the Jewish Holiday, the high holidays.
calltec
Oh, it is also a disaster not to be able to be at the Jewish Holiday, the high holidays.
calltec
Dienstag, 25. September 2007
The bill of rights for children in South Africa
The bill of rights in South Africa for children has a special section .Most of whom had suffered under the apartheid system for many years, therefore equality and worth of all people has an important place.
The objects to be without trial, tortured and assaulted,to be without discrimination in healthcare and education has priority .
The children are described as the most vulnerable members of society.
Bill of rights says: Every child has the right to ( I will write only the points who are not written in the other posts)
a name and a nationality from birth
family care or parental care
basic nutrition
to be protected from maltreatment, exploitative labour practices
Not to work that are inappropriate of a child´s age
not to place a risc the childs well-being, education, physical or mental health
Has to be kept separately from detained persons over the age of 18 years
is treated in a manner that take acount of the childs age
not to be used directly in armed conflict and to be protected in times of armed conflict
The interests of the child are most importance in every matter concerning the child.
The child should be jailed only it is the last solution and should not have to share a cell with adult.(This belonges to childwelfare in south africa)
Then rights in other sections also apply according to the situations children. These are equality, human dignity, religion and health.
Here are a few cases which I read .
An unmarried father of a child who wanted to adopt his child himself. The Child Care Act of 1983 which requires to obtain the consent of both parents before issuing an order for the adoption of a legitimate child but not a child born out of wedlock.
Legitimate children are those born of a marriage recognised by the state.
The court explained this as a violating right of equality. It is a discrimination against fathers in marriages.
Then the court gave parliament two years to correct this law.
An other example.
A Christian school argued that corporal correction are an integral part of the Christian ehtos. On the one side democrathy allows free decisions, on the other hand the law forbids violence to children. The court refused to grant an exemption that would allow corporal punishment in schools, the parents had no choose between school and law, they have follow according the bill of rights .
An other important subject in South Africa is the Prevention and treatment of mother to child with HIV. Nevirapine is an essential treatment as far as children were concerned. The state was obliged to ensure the children get an adaquate treatment with Nevirapine. The government did restrictions on nevirapine and worked against the bill of rights, and endange the life of children. The government hat to remove the restrictions on vevirapine.
Calltec
The objects to be without trial, tortured and assaulted,to be without discrimination in healthcare and education has priority .
The children are described as the most vulnerable members of society.
Bill of rights says: Every child has the right to ( I will write only the points who are not written in the other posts)
a name and a nationality from birth
family care or parental care
basic nutrition
to be protected from maltreatment, exploitative labour practices
Not to work that are inappropriate of a child´s age
not to place a risc the childs well-being, education, physical or mental health
Has to be kept separately from detained persons over the age of 18 years
is treated in a manner that take acount of the childs age
not to be used directly in armed conflict and to be protected in times of armed conflict
The interests of the child are most importance in every matter concerning the child.
The child should be jailed only it is the last solution and should not have to share a cell with adult.(This belonges to childwelfare in south africa)
Then rights in other sections also apply according to the situations children. These are equality, human dignity, religion and health.
Here are a few cases which I read .
An unmarried father of a child who wanted to adopt his child himself. The Child Care Act of 1983 which requires to obtain the consent of both parents before issuing an order for the adoption of a legitimate child but not a child born out of wedlock.
Legitimate children are those born of a marriage recognised by the state.
The court explained this as a violating right of equality. It is a discrimination against fathers in marriages.
Then the court gave parliament two years to correct this law.
An other example.
A Christian school argued that corporal correction are an integral part of the Christian ehtos. On the one side democrathy allows free decisions, on the other hand the law forbids violence to children. The court refused to grant an exemption that would allow corporal punishment in schools, the parents had no choose between school and law, they have follow according the bill of rights .
An other important subject in South Africa is the Prevention and treatment of mother to child with HIV. Nevirapine is an essential treatment as far as children were concerned. The state was obliged to ensure the children get an adaquate treatment with Nevirapine. The government did restrictions on nevirapine and worked against the bill of rights, and endange the life of children. The government hat to remove the restrictions on vevirapine.
Calltec
Children´s Right in Africa
I found an organisation from South Africa. Its CWSA Child Welfare South Africa.
CWSA is an umbrella body that represents 169 affiliates and branches and developing children organisations.One of the largest non-govermental and non-provit organisation in South africa.
Mainpoint is nonprofitsector connectet with the well being of children. CWSA is also supported of organisations and individuals who love to help child welfare and companies. Cwsa is supported for many years from institution and companies of course also hopeful for new Donors. (Their work and help still very important.)There, they have the South Afrika National Council for child and families.
South Africa is since 10 ayears a free and democratic country and the situation for children is still serious.
CWSA has different tasks.
-It is reasonable for the developement of children´s rihgt.
-the relevance of national policy to protect life for children.
-Support communities to help them with their needs through the developing process.
-Fund and Fundraising, opportunity, promote children welfare.
The understandig of children welfare from CWSA includes as follow:
-Confirm its belief in the dignity, diversity, equality and worth of all people
-Developing services which is relevant to the basic children needs.
-not align itself with any particular ethnic group,political party or ideology.
-To be committed to creating public awareness of children needs and rights and society responsibility.
-To be transparent to ist constituency and public for its decisions and actions.
This I think is a very important point, the institution have to be transparent for its decision and actions.This point we miss in Germany and perhaps in USA some actions are also not so transparent. We know what they intend to do, but we usually not know what they really do.In USA many of organsiations with a lot of offers for families and single women with their children for all situations, but the actions with child extraction is still a problem because often not public but often without knowing for parents.
The children´s basic needs and rights according the Bill of rights in South Africa I write in the next blog.
Calltec
CWSA is an umbrella body that represents 169 affiliates and branches and developing children organisations.One of the largest non-govermental and non-provit organisation in South africa.
Mainpoint is nonprofitsector connectet with the well being of children. CWSA is also supported of organisations and individuals who love to help child welfare and companies. Cwsa is supported for many years from institution and companies of course also hopeful for new Donors. (Their work and help still very important.)There, they have the South Afrika National Council for child and families.
South Africa is since 10 ayears a free and democratic country and the situation for children is still serious.
CWSA has different tasks.
-It is reasonable for the developement of children´s rihgt.
-the relevance of national policy to protect life for children.
-Support communities to help them with their needs through the developing process.
-Fund and Fundraising, opportunity, promote children welfare.
The understandig of children welfare from CWSA includes as follow:
-Confirm its belief in the dignity, diversity, equality and worth of all people
-Developing services which is relevant to the basic children needs.
-not align itself with any particular ethnic group,political party or ideology.
-To be committed to creating public awareness of children needs and rights and society responsibility.
-To be transparent to ist constituency and public for its decisions and actions.
This I think is a very important point, the institution have to be transparent for its decision and actions.This point we miss in Germany and perhaps in USA some actions are also not so transparent. We know what they intend to do, but we usually not know what they really do.In USA many of organsiations with a lot of offers for families and single women with their children for all situations, but the actions with child extraction is still a problem because often not public but often without knowing for parents.
The children´s basic needs and rights according the Bill of rights in South Africa I write in the next blog.
Calltec
Freitag, 21. September 2007
For children
http://www.zirkusladen.de/It is a new and great opportunity for children to lend articles for artists and circus.They make workshops and events all about the theme circus. It is very new in Berlin, Germany, and I think, if you are in Germany for a visit with your children, come in and enjoy that little but fine circus-shop.
Donnerstag, 20. September 2007
I found new Sites
I could find a nice site, for example:: http://singlemom1.blogspot.com .
A side for all situations,Cooking and recepts,health and wellness, Finance and parenting. It is good to read ,good for information. However, it is a busy homepages.
Unbroken Homes: Single -Parent Mothers tell their stories, Harworth Innovations in Feminist studies. An interesting book to read about five single mothers who tell about their life from childhood till now.
Author is : Dr. Wendy Anne Paterson .You can read more about her z.b. in Symposium ,Diversity and Human Rights. She is Chair and Associate Professor, Department of Elementary Education and Reading, Buffalo State College
USA . Does many feminist work.
A side for all situations,Cooking and recepts,health and wellness, Finance and parenting. It is good to read ,good for information. However, it is a busy homepages.
Unbroken Homes: Single -Parent Mothers tell their stories, Harworth Innovations in Feminist studies. An interesting book to read about five single mothers who tell about their life from childhood till now.
Author is : Dr. Wendy Anne Paterson .You can read more about her z.b. in Symposium ,Diversity and Human Rights. She is Chair and Associate Professor, Department of Elementary Education and Reading, Buffalo State College
USA . Does many feminist work.
Montag, 17. September 2007
children welfare
In USA several programs for single mother and married and children for all age and all situations. http://www.cwla.org/. gives so many opportunities to support mothers and children in any case. In Germany we have also many offers for single mothers but not with such a great volume.
I looked about the definitions according to children welfare and children abuse and neclegt.The major objects are similar to germany and to meet this demands is important but also difficult. The most single mothers are good mothers but the demands are so many and to care about all things in life is really a heavy thing.Not only to earn money but also to take care of children, to take care of children health, to take care on flat etc.,it is difficult.Sometimes it is good to have such as cwla, but to be independet is a good aim.
In a study of National Institutes for Child Health and Human Development and the William T.Grant Foundation. they came to the conclusions that major reasons for single mother not to work are the health status.The most important things is to be healthy also the child otherwise the costs are so high and the time are so low, that you can´t work or you will loose the work. Other reasons are the low wages, ,no working experiences,problem in the family and care for children.
Also in USA the single mothers have the same problems like in Germany, if you are not employed , if you have little children or even not healthy children you have to live from welfare and this is not equal to others.
Welfare for children includes not only a material supply but also an equal existence to others. Welfare can and is helping, and single mothers have often no choose, and it is better to help the children with welfare than to do nothing, although to live from welfare is a small part of not children welfare because they are not equal to others, the starting situation is not equal and very difficult.
Calltec
I looked about the definitions according to children welfare and children abuse and neclegt.The major objects are similar to germany and to meet this demands is important but also difficult. The most single mothers are good mothers but the demands are so many and to care about all things in life is really a heavy thing.Not only to earn money but also to take care of children, to take care of children health, to take care on flat etc.,it is difficult.Sometimes it is good to have such as cwla, but to be independet is a good aim.
In a study of National Institutes for Child Health and Human Development and the William T.Grant Foundation. they came to the conclusions that major reasons for single mother not to work are the health status.The most important things is to be healthy also the child otherwise the costs are so high and the time are so low, that you can´t work or you will loose the work. Other reasons are the low wages, ,no working experiences,problem in the family and care for children.
Also in USA the single mothers have the same problems like in Germany, if you are not employed , if you have little children or even not healthy children you have to live from welfare and this is not equal to others.
Welfare for children includes not only a material supply but also an equal existence to others. Welfare can and is helping, and single mothers have often no choose, and it is better to help the children with welfare than to do nothing, although to live from welfare is a small part of not children welfare because they are not equal to others, the starting situation is not equal and very difficult.
Calltec
Mittwoch, 12. September 2007
it´s great, it´s Rosh Hashanah
Today evening we have our erev Rosh Hashanah, therefore I searched different videos to show that people express their happiness in different ways.
During the most time I go to synagogue because my one son makes a short trip to Bukarest, my daughter is learning and working in an other town and my other son, who is still living with me has no interest ,does not make Giur and so I will celebrate in synagogue and a little bit at home, with apples and honey. It is enough to feel fit for a new beginning.
May you all be inscribed and sealed for a good year.
LA’SHANA HA’BA BE’YERUSHALAYIM HA’BENUYA (Next year in Jerusalem)
For me true because I´ll travel in November to Jerusalem, it´s great ,really.
Calltec
During the most time I go to synagogue because my one son makes a short trip to Bukarest, my daughter is learning and working in an other town and my other son, who is still living with me has no interest ,does not make Giur and so I will celebrate in synagogue and a little bit at home, with apples and honey. It is enough to feel fit for a new beginning.
May you all be inscribed and sealed for a good year.
LA’SHANA HA’BA BE’YERUSHALAYIM HA’BENUYA (Next year in Jerusalem)
For me true because I´ll travel in November to Jerusalem, it´s great ,really.
Calltec
Dienstag, 11. September 2007
for women who want to learn more
http://www.netzwelt.de/software/4072-blender-3d.html ,a freeware 3D creator to have practise for learning the 3D world. Not long time you need to know the function of the grafik program and you give your creativity free way.
I wish you good luck.
calltec
I wish you good luck.
calltec
Montag, 10. September 2007
Who wrote the small print
Who created the world we mean to know. Either it was the big bang for the science or hashem for the religion or both. However, who wrote the small print where we can read that the human should destroy themself, or supress or rush or be lucky.
Sometimes it seems as if the constitution doesn´t work what it should work. Because to let move the human in his individual developement where he mean to be able to move.Only preventing by his wants and then make accused that he doesn´t want not more and then to push him where he doesn´t want not more. The constitution makes possible liberality, that means to move to a place or to live where poeple mean that it is right for himself, if it is possible. If poeple has the impression that it is possible, he should has to do this so to live, that he means to become lucky.
But who wrote the small print? Know-it-all poeple or smallcross-hatched people? Is that the reality? Or is the true so that it was written from the life itself, from that life where is our source and we create how we can live in it?
Poeple are speaking of rights, of toleranze, that thinking where we all humankinds. But, if we meet the point where we want to realize this, the idea of toleranze differs very much. To determine about someone as poeple think it is better, to push directions and the individuals as poeple think it is o.k., is a dictatur and a removal of freedom also a removal to be lucky. To create a game with rules and to assume that the other plays the same game and to accept the rules, can be endlessly, if poeple doesn´t notice, to play suddenly alone without the others.
To choose a religion and to go with this teaches is natural and legitim, not legitim is to prevent that decision or even to destroy it. To go with a religion, to practise it, nevertheless to work is even desirably. Religion is good as far it doesn´t meet the criminality and does not destroy the own personality.
On its effects it is decided when the individual or others are destroyed. Will it, however, be destroyed by others only because it has decided to live in this kind straight because it do not destroy the life, the criminality is a source of the others and radicality is a understood of the others.
Calltec
Sometimes it seems as if the constitution doesn´t work what it should work. Because to let move the human in his individual developement where he mean to be able to move.Only preventing by his wants and then make accused that he doesn´t want not more and then to push him where he doesn´t want not more. The constitution makes possible liberality, that means to move to a place or to live where poeple mean that it is right for himself, if it is possible. If poeple has the impression that it is possible, he should has to do this so to live, that he means to become lucky.
But who wrote the small print? Know-it-all poeple or smallcross-hatched people? Is that the reality? Or is the true so that it was written from the life itself, from that life where is our source and we create how we can live in it?
Poeple are speaking of rights, of toleranze, that thinking where we all humankinds. But, if we meet the point where we want to realize this, the idea of toleranze differs very much. To determine about someone as poeple think it is better, to push directions and the individuals as poeple think it is o.k., is a dictatur and a removal of freedom also a removal to be lucky. To create a game with rules and to assume that the other plays the same game and to accept the rules, can be endlessly, if poeple doesn´t notice, to play suddenly alone without the others.
To choose a religion and to go with this teaches is natural and legitim, not legitim is to prevent that decision or even to destroy it. To go with a religion, to practise it, nevertheless to work is even desirably. Religion is good as far it doesn´t meet the criminality and does not destroy the own personality.
On its effects it is decided when the individual or others are destroyed. Will it, however, be destroyed by others only because it has decided to live in this kind straight because it do not destroy the life, the criminality is a source of the others and radicality is a understood of the others.
Calltec
Donnerstag, 30. August 2007
Child withdrawal
How already mentioned I would like to concern myself far with the topic child withdrawal and to be regenerated exact as possible, because again and again cases become or tell shown out, it becomes a reformation or dissolution of the youth welfare office demanded, court orders etc. exist.
I would like first once personal reports to collect as well as the opinion of the concerning so far that am emotional possible represent, which to exact career/development to such an child extraction without hearing often it goes to the mother then would like I the institution youth welfare office more exactly to regard, their tasks, who arranges this office and who has the supervision, because except child extraction also different tasks become perception as e.g. in the name of the mother maintenance for the children of the father to draw in or kindergarten places organize or daily mothers or money for kindergarden, etc.. Then I would like to collect court orders from where also always, I must only experiences also there gain. In things child withdrawal I made and could experiences my children with much trouble keep. In addition however in another post office, my children are now of age and it let now better more objectively over it be investigated and analyzed.
The training of the social paedagogues and/or the youth welfare offices must be lit up likewise exactly, surely also a criterion for wrong decisions.
Then, as the individual resolutions of the courts look to child extraction. The resolutions must state detailed data for their remarks. How do these look?
Which means the term: To the well-being of the child? Is there a generally accepted definition? Is a subjective decision of whom and for whom?
As the composition of the mothers from those sees the child is, from who social layers they come, as look the education conditions, mentality, stress factor, occupations and environmental factor, are as strong prejudices minted.
In as far the problems from the life developed, how many from the outside made?
One sees, it is a far field, which I can write naturally not at one time, but for each topic or two seperate posts I will write and will investigate before. Little time needs.
In addition still another view goes to Europe, the USA, Israel and other countries throw like it with its children look.
To begin I would like with personal reports and who would like to write its experiences can it in the comment anonymous is published or the above-mentioned email address to send. Please write your opinion in addition and whether you back-get your children again.
When buying I did think of the problem after, continue to be two parts not a connection have. On the one hand the youth welfare office specialists, who no more d know when it to intervene are and when not and on the other hand the mother or parents those not to know how to resist to be supposed itself, and if one see the other side to know like them a neglect or an abusing of their child to protect be supposed.
It would be well beside an anonymous child flap also an anonymous parents/mother flap to furnish where made excessive demands of and over-be frightened mothers to turn itself can without fear have had directly their children to lose. An emergency troop should assist then in acute times day and night of the mother to the stress spades helps more be sometimes an existence around the mother the stress to take and it again area sees where the family a chance has I thinks of older humans those help could, or evenly a group explains itself honorary ready for such cases, so that simply the worst above all a child withdrawal can be prevented . The same during threatening safe-keeping draw of the dwelling, often helps a simply action and the problem is eliminated. There is simple measures however exactly that is the point, with children and psychological stress and fear.
To prevent mother for a child withdrawal with unjustified reasons, that is very important.
With threatening child withdrawal already from many an independent commission recommended those the overtaxed youth welfare office the decision decreases and with parents together confers.
In this case I will excuse my bad English. I will improve it, really.
Calltec
Calltec
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Wednesday, 29 August 2007
Enterprise
I children looked to have so long so long we Enterprise, took part in played, bought maps, books, figures, stickers, postcards and my children star Trek of tournaments.
Began actually with me still at home. I sat in the advanced jugendalter with my nut/mother on the sofa and we looked at myself the star Trek together classic and schwaermten naturally from James T. Kirk, who all this together-struck Kaepten and kissed all women. We found it simply mad. At the time at that time beside the spaceship the Orion was simply sensationally with the Klingonen and the federation and Russian and Amerikaner and a afroamerikanische Funkerin together on a spaceship in the middle in the cold war, much recovery SAM. I took this enthusiasm also into my bachelor life and then as I mean first son got regarded I with him, a baby on the arm, the star Trek classic and that him and to be 2 brothers and sisters enormously coined/shaped. We looked at these series again and again and again. My children did not become larger and Rauschiff Voyer and Deep space Nine wobbled in and our enthusiasm knew borders. As my children at the dte rodent age were came the star Trek collect and play maps out and the young people met in the star Trekladen and played Tuniere and organized even believes I country widely. I white until today as one does not play however it has much with strategy to do and depending upon which set one has was one in the advantage. My children have hundreds of these maps of all series with all scenes and pictures and figures. These are naturally carefully guarded. The Klingonen fascinated my children particularly, above all the outside change that tacitly carried out itself and naturally the internal change before with blutruenstigen Kaempfen.Mr. Worf said once: it is a good day too die only does not copy, thought I. Mr. Spock always says: Live long in peace.
Enterprise, NEXT generation, was developed already somewhat more diffisiler, philosophical directives played a vital role, humans, the peace and the other one was important, the understanding for other cultures and worlds, which came Romulaner and the Ferengis, which potthaesslich I found ueberigens and many other cultures still also. The Vukanier was already in classic represented by Mr. Spock. Mr. Spock famous for its Logig and its pointed ears, a Vulkanier evenly that hardly feelings knew however with the Logig each problem solved. Mr. DATA was then into the NEXT Generation.Wir, the entire Famile was very inspired by these figures and discussed also gladly the philosophical problems. Whether Logig can replace also feelings, whether the highest directive was really better into other cultures to never interfere, for example with the own knowledge or progress whether a Android can be recognized such as Mr. DATA nevertheless also as humans it a member of the crew is there and also in the Enterpriseleben its role fulfilled. Or if a hologram is aware of its that it is a hologram, has it requirement on it further to live or can it be simply switched off. We had thus always sufficient discussion material in this direction.
The Captain in NEXT Genaeration was also not as a Draufgaenger as Kirk, had few affairs with women and is occupied rather more with its ship and his crew and acted more prudently. One can say however that all Kaptains of the Enterprise was married with their ships in basictaken only and so as models for loyalty and stood for loyalty, surely also American coined/shaped.
Me pleased in Voyer Mr. Neelix particularly well, my children were impressed from Mr Odo in Deep space Nine, which formwandler can transform into everything.
All series and all consequences we saw, it gave which which we found completely mad like the Gremlins, are nearly clear, I liked this time gate of,es were so mysteriously, anyway the space-time distortion with all their possibilities, simply outstanding made and think-worth.
Altogether all figures on us left a large impression and one could them also identify as such and could do them with their characteristics and habits. Naturally problematic if then my son said, plays schau times Mr. Sock also in this film, or here you can see also to Kirk, or schau times there is Mr. Riker.Das is after 25 years to hardly avoid, even if they play in other films, it remains evenly Enterprise. We were not also very sad that Scotty and pill went from us, one would like that so quite to understand, because they were to be always seen and still are.
The star Trek of motion picture films we saw all on video and partly in the cinema. The Borgs not forgotten thereby also and more than once heard one it: Resistance is useless, it is assimilated. My children repeated the saying very gladly and it were received also into the star Trek history. The films showed very in detail the figures in their roles, prepared a topic, like the rescue of the earth, or the first contact with extraterrestial ones, very well. The first Worpantrieb, which g-tt first contact with the Romulanern, genesis, a erschaffung of the world in shortest time, revival of Mr. Spock, for search, were all topics those fundamentally and to large part intelligently and had been compiled are intelligent.
We are also today still star Trek trailer, only sometimes the time is missing the films to always look at and one became older. The letze series with the completely new Kaptain and before classic the Enterprise only my sons looked at, I had for it no more time.
The Enterprise coined/shaped my children, as exactly I cannot say, but it an identification possibility and the chance offer with continuous important topics to argue and simply also fun have, to fun without danger and criminality. I find it important nevertheless the fact that accompany parents or parents the child and also looks at and also into star Treklaeden goes and with its Kinder(ern)darueber converses and discussed. That is good a fine thing and for the children.
I look forward to enkelkinder, we on case of each star Trek will already see.
Calltec
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Wednesday, 15 August 2007
Early warning system for children without fathers
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Early warning system for children without fathers
Umweltjournal.de | Family and children | Article No.: 12635 Michael boots
Around it directly in front to say the children of however-educating do not only need an early warning system.
Berlin, bill 12.07.2007: It concerns that the scope for discretion goes from youth welfare offices strongly increased ist.Es around child damage in the a nut/mother family, during father connection lacking is rather the readiness of the fathers about the new generation to worry. Apparently the fathers as rather suitably seen to substitute if the nut/mother is overtaxed.
Which is seen as excessive demand, becomes here do not bespochen, but it aims clearly at the alone-educating role with its indispositions, the however-educating is located in the center of possible child damages, is thus praedistiniert for it.
Parents autonomy in kind 6 GG. Without family-judicial control such interferences would out-lever otherwise the parents right completely and in the discretion of partly unsatisfactorily trained authority coworkers would place.
My opinion refers to contents of the article.
The word excessive demand is used gladly with however-educating, but which nut/mother is not overtaxed? Household, occupation, children, school, homework and occupation are multiple Tasking tasks depending upon ability to be settled. But with the excessive demand one does not confess to the nut/mother a success of its tasks to which however only to a small subrange applies. If one suggests it however the fact that she is overtaxed and unable, which is meant also with it believes it it also and the father could prove, not even keeps now the task of everything to that to make better to be able than the nut/mother. Is correct in addition?
And also does a damage of the child accompany with an excessive demand? And if the child is damaged, or, is that is abused an indication of Ueberfoderung of the nut/mother? Or nevertheless rather a damaged psyche, or disturbed relationship with the child?
And particularly it occur in a nut/mother families does that one must treat that separately? Fathers the long from nut/mother and child are not separate already have a routine in child education or family, must again orient themselves and have large difficulties thereby.
If youth welfare offices coworkers send also before-calm opinions over however-educating into a family and this corresponds to the conceptions not completely comes it very fast to the result of an excessive demand, the father may again the familiar guide roller take over and the nut/mother, I white not which with it passes. Terapien or cures or otherwise possibly something.
Didn't any party want a close network to twist with offices, schools, labour office and youth welfare office and office for citizen and then over the mothers to throw?
The question arises again and again. What arranges to entreissen a society as frequently children from the families and/or the mothers and as comes it the fact that a society fails in such a way that so many will apparently entrissen must?
Calltec
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Label: Child withdrawal
Thursday, 9 August 2007
Social welfare assistance and money
The old problem with the money. How does one spend as few as possible on as much as possible? Each woman has so their Geheimtipps and nearly all to buy with Aldi, penny or Lidl in. The assortment is also mostly the same because one the prices and knows the place. All the same over which food it acts, always is it the cheapest although we had already stated that an expensive does not taste however straight unbedint better with cleaning agent less needs and keeps longer. But the feeling more moneys to spend nevertheless on something which one than unimportantly recognized, is often uncomfortably. The money is mostly spent on food and clothes and on rolls. Hie are extremely favorable the bread prices and rolls and cakes so that each day be eaten can and thus no more luxury property represents.
I have often the habit had for a whole week to buy which was however wrongly divided, because we did not eat each day noodles or rice, not only sausage or cheese, but still the fish was added there and the fruit and the milk. Everything which one reduce could not which one however only makes if it any longer differently goes, then we can get along with noodles and tomato Marks and with butter bread, and a banana hands finally also. Chocolate costs only 45 cent or still less, which one has still in the drawer to sometimes lie, thus chocolate is also no more luxury property.
As my children looked our economic situation was small differently. There were quite days in which we hardly something to eat had and much dringed for the money waited, there was at food nothing more there, not even more bread. If any longer were not could I mean parents to call us then helped. I have only made if it any longer did not continue and the children already hunger had and without breakfast into the school went and also no lunch got, then my parents helped out. That were already moments in which I swore myself that we will always have to eat something, it were however also few moments and we are also not verhungert.
It pulls important factors at the nerves and river and gas is endangered and at most, because in the money going calculations accumulate themselves up correctly in any case and it is hardly hope available that one can pay these, let alone becomes free from debt. But to this condition one accustomed and in the life with eingebaut.Es is also strange the fact that with some the money remains and itself increased and is hardly it with me it again dissolves there and I always with zero is. Perhaps lies also in the fate of each particular. With this keyword I must tell like I that first times money with map putting earned. We were again without money and food, things already in the flea market had been sold and I considered which one still make can. I announced a classified advertisement with offer map putting. I had not put already often privately and success had however so publicly to the money making yet. I hate do essentially luck and a woman came, was content and I earned my first 50 DM with own achievement. I made one while and had some regular customers and I could so the family nourish. The people were very content and with the time accustomed I to it for it Gelld to take itself. One map-puts colleague called me, I am for her map putting, because she expects a win in Lotto. I had to answer this in the negative and her was very disappointed however nevertheless safe that am correct. Well, also kartenlegerinnen do not have so their dreams and for itself can one no map putting, functioned. Today I do not make the no more for religious reasons, but it is not bad business the map putting.
Otherwise I could earn still in a Gastaette in addition and helped in the kitchen, with the advantage that I could carry meals and cakes forward home. There the work was arduously however especially money and to eat was, everything importantly at that time for my children, found that mad.
Jobs with food are anyway nearly already more dickmacher, because than I had worked in the food trade, we could mitnehemen commodity run off, which would be otherwise thrown away. In this time I have enormous amounts at yogurt and cheese, coffee even sausage with taken taken I increased really precariously. If one in fleischereien all day works mostly receives one a free lunch and may from the lunch something get itself. A giant advantage and we naturally very hungry were we any more were not pleased everything.
The meal was the center of attention although we not so much hungerten or such a thing however the largest part of the money became in food converted and over the month divided, for other material goods was no money available, one had itself over it no thoughts to make, alsol remained the meal. Today, with an adult son in the household one does not have to economize well however to food is any more hauptproblem, at least not in this Stadttteil in which we to live, here is the cost of living extrtem low. Money however for larger expenditures like e.g. larger pieces of furniture one could not not yet and the debts yet be paid off, thus in the comparison to the Federal citizen average applies we surely immern still than poor.
With social welfare assistance it is with difficulty up to the end of the month to come through with small children, it particularly lives at the forces. One is not dependent necessarily on luxury, one white however like others lives and white also the fact that the quality of life is not only idealistic but also materially abhaemgig and that children affects. With family loads the children learn to be able social authority on their school or career intentions to concentrate however not completely, it exist themselves hardly networks or relations because parents not in work be located and not with Mr. X in company Y to call to be able, times ne training place haste freely or a job or a practical course.
Social welfare assistance does not mean little money, much owing and with high probability with progressive age a chance for release. One must have the courage completely again begin to die and on the left and on the right everything fall let risk.
Calltec
Calltec
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Label: social justice
Wednesday, 8 August 2007
Sozialaemter
I want to report not very much negative have I nevertheless very often of this institution lived to my disappointment. Here I would like to say to all young people the fact that they should absolutely try independently from social welfare assistance to to live and everything at work to rather assume which them in such a way over the way runs or which leaves place of residence differently to work over somewhere or training make. My experiences are these that if once begun one back-slips again and again, for different reasons also for these reasons that one becomes acquainted with humans from this situation those not to accept does not want the fact that one would like to change its own situation and to try with fadenscheinigen excuses to block, often is it also under-conscious procedures, often in addition, job market caused causes. It is to be separated extremely heavily from social welfare assistance to and one should as well as possible try this assistance to never occur, if it goes somehow. Me the reasons are not only too good well-known and a nut/mother with small children can now times not work make them already at home enough, humans a work to find, ill humans, frustierte humans. In addition, as many young humans.
Before 20 years I was for the first time with the sozialamt, the house where one money get can. I had before at all no notion of it, my parents always lived from work and everything else was evenly welfare service of cases which we helped however otherwise nothing to do had. My parents were not war children and had always fear of life, it gave also damsls child benefit and not this social welfare assistance like today. Who did not work stood on the road and lived on welfare service, was called also in an emergency in put down Eisenbahnwagons. I still saw or in aermlichen social accommodations. My parents i.e. at the beginning of my father and was by the war accustomed with to be gotten along, still little today has he had to work the habit dry bread with a piece of sausage to sometimes eat, from habit. Out to search or something was luxury learns itself work. Already fueh it that my nut/mother cooperates, wanted the money would also otherwise not have been enough, it found however anyway that the woman must cooperate also for the family. My nut/mother meant, he had been a communist, today he as a left one had been surely designated, but in truth he is for over 60 years in the SPD. It participated also as itself first directly after the war in the Esperanto regained. Strange to say zienmlich right after disliked humans from different countries together-did to the war and organized Camps. Thus my parents did not have from niergendwo money harsh-come and did not know also social welfare assistance, the consideration or security that one could live also without work, gave it simply. The fear of life of my parents accompanied me, since I however well was, i.e. that I did not know a fear around dwelling and work took I that always today know I the social welfare assistance scene of 4 cities. In former times the corridors were long and dark and dirtily. Hundreds of humans collected themselves there always, all full smoke and stickig, who were few wood banks occupied and one stood and waited, children, babies, old person, boy, homeless person etc.. One waited to one at the row was and if one did not only have pitch were the specialist unfriendly but had equal the last renting payment verschlampt or dispatched one simply and regarded one from above down. Women are very skillfully if them from the social editor something to have would like. At that time still possible, today comes it was directly into the dwelling and looks after whether one something really needs, also into the cabinets looked and each area examine-understandably already in addition, entwuerdigend, one feels as property of the state, perhaps is one also, because it also legally the assistance receiver exists the right to control in such a way in its private sectors, is available it the state nearly unhindered thus somehow. A problem is it in any case once the achievements of the state to receive straight for a human being-worthy life of which in the Basic Law is embodied which in addition, not the reality corresponds and then however again the right of the state on private control which the human being-worthy life opposes, from the unfriendly and goennerischen treatment by specialists completely apart.
At that time a woman brought a cushion also, from her child versifft, and held it for the specialist before the nose. There they smell times, I need an in any case new cushion. Another meant with blip that voice, I white not how much color I for the dwelling need, but they can measure certainly best and smiled soul-calmly. I am safe, her from compassion a higher amount paid off got, because Sozilahilfeempfaenger can count very well and know where them the cheapest color to get very exactly to be able. To financial matters in a later block. A specialist has mostly no notion of it. Once I had to have the luck a specialist from the left probably autonomous scene, normally am I no friend of it, generously got I nearly the whole household in monetary value already soon offered, her wiess me
whereupon which I would have to still need. It came out a beautiful sum, which I also actually got and which we could need also for all kinds of beautiful things, micht absolutely only for the household. Another woman, who had to start really also from the beginning and nothing had, did not even receive a washing machine with the reason, it, the specialist for her three children also with nothing to begin would have had.
The money of the state stands for one too if one really nothing has and up to now have I always the experience made that one also actually gets money and on it a little live can. I got 150 DM that with my three children per week am today 75 euro. Now I receive alone for me alone per week 60 euro, that am approx.. 120 DM, an increase around nearly 50 %.
The older the children become the more simply are it. With small children one hardly comes through, the needs is higher, the meals must differently be prepared and the school cost itself properly much money and the dress sizes to change constantly. The costs are higher and there with small children had we at the end of the month nothing more and waited always sehnlichst the next money off. Today however the subsidies with the Hartz4 rose. A condition that was nerve-racking and with the human being-worthy life to agree is not. One saves and turns and turns and it does not hand nevertheless not, one waits for the next money, also this is enough not, mostly is like that, if money is that then all fall themselves on the meal purchase, buys z.T indiscriminately around the lack of purchase of the last 2 weeks again to make, gets everything there in 2 to 3 days after around then again into the lack of purchase to drop back and on next money day wait. I had to divide tried and have that also during good organization the money is not enough nearly and one can use still considered like one still more efficiently the money, one become determined proper creatively, also my oldest son considered myself, before 20 years was that, how he could spend 1 DM most effectively. He was allowed to buy for 1DM an ice, came back with an ice, a role of drops and a chocolate latch plate, everything for DM, he was very proud on this increase. A little one would like to have stop of the life, thus for bathing we drove and ice we always always ate, for it with roasting potatoes and Spagettie too however often brought and little meat and always the cheapest sausage. At that time we had dress money a little spent on dresses otherwise for toys. My today still another whole crate with Legos, Playmobile and railway has sons. Each quantity star Trek play maps and then the Transformer and other figures. Everything was expensive and from the dress money at that time was financed, but my children were not so well dressed which back problems with itself brought. A woman with 7 children attracted her children always tip top, nobody should see that their children are poor and come from a child-rich family, actually also reasonably. We already went to toys to the red cross to the expenditure for play and us give free of charge to have let. Completely at the beginning one got even flour and butter given, the EEC had an enormous butter mountain, which the social receivers should abfuttern.
I thought always that I, if the children are large, will find out out this social case and independently live can without this fault of dependent and asking plates. The law says something else however to feel and feels does one something else. I know the difference if one work and if one is unemployed, if one is unmarried, if one is together with a Partener, if one is alone with children, wennn one in the university works, whom<<<<<<<< snip >>>>>>>>
I would like first once personal reports to collect as well as the opinion of the concerning so far that am emotional possible represent, which to exact career/development to such an child extraction without hearing often it goes to the mother then would like I the institution youth welfare office more exactly to regard, their tasks, who arranges this office and who has the supervision, because except child extraction also different tasks become perception as e.g. in the name of the mother maintenance for the children of the father to draw in or kindergarten places organize or daily mothers or money for kindergarden, etc.. Then I would like to collect court orders from where also always, I must only experiences also there gain. In things child withdrawal I made and could experiences my children with much trouble keep. In addition however in another post office, my children are now of age and it let now better more objectively over it be investigated and analyzed.
The training of the social paedagogues and/or the youth welfare offices must be lit up likewise exactly, surely also a criterion for wrong decisions.
Then, as the individual resolutions of the courts look to child extraction. The resolutions must state detailed data for their remarks. How do these look?
Which means the term: To the well-being of the child? Is there a generally accepted definition? Is a subjective decision of whom and for whom?
As the composition of the mothers from those sees the child is, from who social layers they come, as look the education conditions, mentality, stress factor, occupations and environmental factor, are as strong prejudices minted.
In as far the problems from the life developed, how many from the outside made?
One sees, it is a far field, which I can write naturally not at one time, but for each topic or two seperate posts I will write and will investigate before. Little time needs.
In addition still another view goes to Europe, the USA, Israel and other countries throw like it with its children look.
To begin I would like with personal reports and who would like to write its experiences can it in the comment anonymous is published or the above-mentioned email address to send. Please write your opinion in addition and whether you back-get your children again.
When buying I did think of the problem after, continue to be two parts not a connection have. On the one hand the youth welfare office specialists, who no more d know when it to intervene are and when not and on the other hand the mother or parents those not to know how to resist to be supposed itself, and if one see the other side to know like them a neglect or an abusing of their child to protect be supposed.
It would be well beside an anonymous child flap also an anonymous parents/mother flap to furnish where made excessive demands of and over-be frightened mothers to turn itself can without fear have had directly their children to lose. An emergency troop should assist then in acute times day and night of the mother to the stress spades helps more be sometimes an existence around the mother the stress to take and it again area sees where the family a chance has I thinks of older humans those help could, or evenly a group explains itself honorary ready for such cases, so that simply the worst above all a child withdrawal can be prevented . The same during threatening safe-keeping draw of the dwelling, often helps a simply action and the problem is eliminated. There is simple measures however exactly that is the point, with children and psychological stress and fear.
To prevent mother for a child withdrawal with unjustified reasons, that is very important.
With threatening child withdrawal already from many an independent commission recommended those the overtaxed youth welfare office the decision decreases and with parents together confers.
In this case I will excuse my bad English. I will improve it, really.
Calltec
Calltec
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Label: Child withdrawal
Wednesday, 29 August 2007
Enterprise
I children looked to have so long so long we Enterprise, took part in played, bought maps, books, figures, stickers, postcards and my children star Trek of tournaments.
Began actually with me still at home. I sat in the advanced jugendalter with my nut/mother on the sofa and we looked at myself the star Trek together classic and schwaermten naturally from James T. Kirk, who all this together-struck Kaepten and kissed all women. We found it simply mad. At the time at that time beside the spaceship the Orion was simply sensationally with the Klingonen and the federation and Russian and Amerikaner and a afroamerikanische Funkerin together on a spaceship in the middle in the cold war, much recovery SAM. I took this enthusiasm also into my bachelor life and then as I mean first son got regarded I with him, a baby on the arm, the star Trek classic and that him and to be 2 brothers and sisters enormously coined/shaped. We looked at these series again and again and again. My children did not become larger and Rauschiff Voyer and Deep space Nine wobbled in and our enthusiasm knew borders. As my children at the dte rodent age were came the star Trek collect and play maps out and the young people met in the star Trekladen and played Tuniere and organized even believes I country widely. I white until today as one does not play however it has much with strategy to do and depending upon which set one has was one in the advantage. My children have hundreds of these maps of all series with all scenes and pictures and figures. These are naturally carefully guarded. The Klingonen fascinated my children particularly, above all the outside change that tacitly carried out itself and naturally the internal change before with blutruenstigen Kaempfen.Mr. Worf said once: it is a good day too die only does not copy, thought I. Mr. Spock always says: Live long in peace.
Enterprise, NEXT generation, was developed already somewhat more diffisiler, philosophical directives played a vital role, humans, the peace and the other one was important, the understanding for other cultures and worlds, which came Romulaner and the Ferengis, which potthaesslich I found ueberigens and many other cultures still also. The Vukanier was already in classic represented by Mr. Spock. Mr. Spock famous for its Logig and its pointed ears, a Vulkanier evenly that hardly feelings knew however with the Logig each problem solved. Mr. DATA was then into the NEXT Generation.Wir, the entire Famile was very inspired by these figures and discussed also gladly the philosophical problems. Whether Logig can replace also feelings, whether the highest directive was really better into other cultures to never interfere, for example with the own knowledge or progress whether a Android can be recognized such as Mr. DATA nevertheless also as humans it a member of the crew is there and also in the Enterpriseleben its role fulfilled. Or if a hologram is aware of its that it is a hologram, has it requirement on it further to live or can it be simply switched off. We had thus always sufficient discussion material in this direction.
The Captain in NEXT Genaeration was also not as a Draufgaenger as Kirk, had few affairs with women and is occupied rather more with its ship and his crew and acted more prudently. One can say however that all Kaptains of the Enterprise was married with their ships in basictaken only and so as models for loyalty and stood for loyalty, surely also American coined/shaped.
Me pleased in Voyer Mr. Neelix particularly well, my children were impressed from Mr Odo in Deep space Nine, which formwandler can transform into everything.
All series and all consequences we saw, it gave which which we found completely mad like the Gremlins, are nearly clear, I liked this time gate of,es were so mysteriously, anyway the space-time distortion with all their possibilities, simply outstanding made and think-worth.
Altogether all figures on us left a large impression and one could them also identify as such and could do them with their characteristics and habits. Naturally problematic if then my son said, plays schau times Mr. Sock also in this film, or here you can see also to Kirk, or schau times there is Mr. Riker.Das is after 25 years to hardly avoid, even if they play in other films, it remains evenly Enterprise. We were not also very sad that Scotty and pill went from us, one would like that so quite to understand, because they were to be always seen and still are.
The star Trek of motion picture films we saw all on video and partly in the cinema. The Borgs not forgotten thereby also and more than once heard one it: Resistance is useless, it is assimilated. My children repeated the saying very gladly and it were received also into the star Trek history. The films showed very in detail the figures in their roles, prepared a topic, like the rescue of the earth, or the first contact with extraterrestial ones, very well. The first Worpantrieb, which g-tt first contact with the Romulanern, genesis, a erschaffung of the world in shortest time, revival of Mr. Spock, for search, were all topics those fundamentally and to large part intelligently and had been compiled are intelligent.
We are also today still star Trek trailer, only sometimes the time is missing the films to always look at and one became older. The letze series with the completely new Kaptain and before classic the Enterprise only my sons looked at, I had for it no more time.
The Enterprise coined/shaped my children, as exactly I cannot say, but it an identification possibility and the chance offer with continuous important topics to argue and simply also fun have, to fun without danger and criminality. I find it important nevertheless the fact that accompany parents or parents the child and also looks at and also into star Treklaeden goes and with its Kinder(ern)darueber converses and discussed. That is good a fine thing and for the children.
I look forward to enkelkinder, we on case of each star Trek will already see.
Calltec
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Wednesday, 15 August 2007
Early warning system for children without fathers
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Early warning system for children without fathers
Umweltjournal.de | Family and children | Article No.: 12635 Michael boots
Around it directly in front to say the children of however-educating do not only need an early warning system.
Berlin, bill 12.07.2007: It concerns that the scope for discretion goes from youth welfare offices strongly increased ist.Es around child damage in the a nut/mother family, during father connection lacking is rather the readiness of the fathers about the new generation to worry. Apparently the fathers as rather suitably seen to substitute if the nut/mother is overtaxed.
Which is seen as excessive demand, becomes here do not bespochen, but it aims clearly at the alone-educating role with its indispositions, the however-educating is located in the center of possible child damages, is thus praedistiniert for it.
Parents autonomy in kind 6 GG. Without family-judicial control such interferences would out-lever otherwise the parents right completely and in the discretion of partly unsatisfactorily trained authority coworkers would place.
My opinion refers to contents of the article.
The word excessive demand is used gladly with however-educating, but which nut/mother is not overtaxed? Household, occupation, children, school, homework and occupation are multiple Tasking tasks depending upon ability to be settled. But with the excessive demand one does not confess to the nut/mother a success of its tasks to which however only to a small subrange applies. If one suggests it however the fact that she is overtaxed and unable, which is meant also with it believes it it also and the father could prove, not even keeps now the task of everything to that to make better to be able than the nut/mother. Is correct in addition?
And also does a damage of the child accompany with an excessive demand? And if the child is damaged, or, is that is abused an indication of Ueberfoderung of the nut/mother? Or nevertheless rather a damaged psyche, or disturbed relationship with the child?
And particularly it occur in a nut/mother families does that one must treat that separately? Fathers the long from nut/mother and child are not separate already have a routine in child education or family, must again orient themselves and have large difficulties thereby.
If youth welfare offices coworkers send also before-calm opinions over however-educating into a family and this corresponds to the conceptions not completely comes it very fast to the result of an excessive demand, the father may again the familiar guide roller take over and the nut/mother, I white not which with it passes. Terapien or cures or otherwise possibly something.
Didn't any party want a close network to twist with offices, schools, labour office and youth welfare office and office for citizen and then over the mothers to throw?
The question arises again and again. What arranges to entreissen a society as frequently children from the families and/or the mothers and as comes it the fact that a society fails in such a way that so many will apparently entrissen must?
Calltec
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Label: Child withdrawal
Thursday, 9 August 2007
Social welfare assistance and money
The old problem with the money. How does one spend as few as possible on as much as possible? Each woman has so their Geheimtipps and nearly all to buy with Aldi, penny or Lidl in. The assortment is also mostly the same because one the prices and knows the place. All the same over which food it acts, always is it the cheapest although we had already stated that an expensive does not taste however straight unbedint better with cleaning agent less needs and keeps longer. But the feeling more moneys to spend nevertheless on something which one than unimportantly recognized, is often uncomfortably. The money is mostly spent on food and clothes and on rolls. Hie are extremely favorable the bread prices and rolls and cakes so that each day be eaten can and thus no more luxury property represents.
I have often the habit had for a whole week to buy which was however wrongly divided, because we did not eat each day noodles or rice, not only sausage or cheese, but still the fish was added there and the fruit and the milk. Everything which one reduce could not which one however only makes if it any longer differently goes, then we can get along with noodles and tomato Marks and with butter bread, and a banana hands finally also. Chocolate costs only 45 cent or still less, which one has still in the drawer to sometimes lie, thus chocolate is also no more luxury property.
As my children looked our economic situation was small differently. There were quite days in which we hardly something to eat had and much dringed for the money waited, there was at food nothing more there, not even more bread. If any longer were not could I mean parents to call us then helped. I have only made if it any longer did not continue and the children already hunger had and without breakfast into the school went and also no lunch got, then my parents helped out. That were already moments in which I swore myself that we will always have to eat something, it were however also few moments and we are also not verhungert.
It pulls important factors at the nerves and river and gas is endangered and at most, because in the money going calculations accumulate themselves up correctly in any case and it is hardly hope available that one can pay these, let alone becomes free from debt. But to this condition one accustomed and in the life with eingebaut.Es is also strange the fact that with some the money remains and itself increased and is hardly it with me it again dissolves there and I always with zero is. Perhaps lies also in the fate of each particular. With this keyword I must tell like I that first times money with map putting earned. We were again without money and food, things already in the flea market had been sold and I considered which one still make can. I announced a classified advertisement with offer map putting. I had not put already often privately and success had however so publicly to the money making yet. I hate do essentially luck and a woman came, was content and I earned my first 50 DM with own achievement. I made one while and had some regular customers and I could so the family nourish. The people were very content and with the time accustomed I to it for it Gelld to take itself. One map-puts colleague called me, I am for her map putting, because she expects a win in Lotto. I had to answer this in the negative and her was very disappointed however nevertheless safe that am correct. Well, also kartenlegerinnen do not have so their dreams and for itself can one no map putting, functioned. Today I do not make the no more for religious reasons, but it is not bad business the map putting.
Otherwise I could earn still in a Gastaette in addition and helped in the kitchen, with the advantage that I could carry meals and cakes forward home. There the work was arduously however especially money and to eat was, everything importantly at that time for my children, found that mad.
Jobs with food are anyway nearly already more dickmacher, because than I had worked in the food trade, we could mitnehemen commodity run off, which would be otherwise thrown away. In this time I have enormous amounts at yogurt and cheese, coffee even sausage with taken taken I increased really precariously. If one in fleischereien all day works mostly receives one a free lunch and may from the lunch something get itself. A giant advantage and we naturally very hungry were we any more were not pleased everything.
The meal was the center of attention although we not so much hungerten or such a thing however the largest part of the money became in food converted and over the month divided, for other material goods was no money available, one had itself over it no thoughts to make, alsol remained the meal. Today, with an adult son in the household one does not have to economize well however to food is any more hauptproblem, at least not in this Stadttteil in which we to live, here is the cost of living extrtem low. Money however for larger expenditures like e.g. larger pieces of furniture one could not not yet and the debts yet be paid off, thus in the comparison to the Federal citizen average applies we surely immern still than poor.
With social welfare assistance it is with difficulty up to the end of the month to come through with small children, it particularly lives at the forces. One is not dependent necessarily on luxury, one white however like others lives and white also the fact that the quality of life is not only idealistic but also materially abhaemgig and that children affects. With family loads the children learn to be able social authority on their school or career intentions to concentrate however not completely, it exist themselves hardly networks or relations because parents not in work be located and not with Mr. X in company Y to call to be able, times ne training place haste freely or a job or a practical course.
Social welfare assistance does not mean little money, much owing and with high probability with progressive age a chance for release. One must have the courage completely again begin to die and on the left and on the right everything fall let risk.
Calltec
Calltec
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Label: social justice
Wednesday, 8 August 2007
Sozialaemter
I want to report not very much negative have I nevertheless very often of this institution lived to my disappointment. Here I would like to say to all young people the fact that they should absolutely try independently from social welfare assistance to to live and everything at work to rather assume which them in such a way over the way runs or which leaves place of residence differently to work over somewhere or training make. My experiences are these that if once begun one back-slips again and again, for different reasons also for these reasons that one becomes acquainted with humans from this situation those not to accept does not want the fact that one would like to change its own situation and to try with fadenscheinigen excuses to block, often is it also under-conscious procedures, often in addition, job market caused causes. It is to be separated extremely heavily from social welfare assistance to and one should as well as possible try this assistance to never occur, if it goes somehow. Me the reasons are not only too good well-known and a nut/mother with small children can now times not work make them already at home enough, humans a work to find, ill humans, frustierte humans. In addition, as many young humans.
Before 20 years I was for the first time with the sozialamt, the house where one money get can. I had before at all no notion of it, my parents always lived from work and everything else was evenly welfare service of cases which we helped however otherwise nothing to do had. My parents were not war children and had always fear of life, it gave also damsls child benefit and not this social welfare assistance like today. Who did not work stood on the road and lived on welfare service, was called also in an emergency in put down Eisenbahnwagons. I still saw or in aermlichen social accommodations. My parents i.e. at the beginning of my father and was by the war accustomed with to be gotten along, still little today has he had to work the habit dry bread with a piece of sausage to sometimes eat, from habit. Out to search or something was luxury learns itself work. Already fueh it that my nut/mother cooperates, wanted the money would also otherwise not have been enough, it found however anyway that the woman must cooperate also for the family. My nut/mother meant, he had been a communist, today he as a left one had been surely designated, but in truth he is for over 60 years in the SPD. It participated also as itself first directly after the war in the Esperanto regained. Strange to say zienmlich right after disliked humans from different countries together-did to the war and organized Camps. Thus my parents did not have from niergendwo money harsh-come and did not know also social welfare assistance, the consideration or security that one could live also without work, gave it simply. The fear of life of my parents accompanied me, since I however well was, i.e. that I did not know a fear around dwelling and work took I that always today know I the social welfare assistance scene of 4 cities. In former times the corridors were long and dark and dirtily. Hundreds of humans collected themselves there always, all full smoke and stickig, who were few wood banks occupied and one stood and waited, children, babies, old person, boy, homeless person etc.. One waited to one at the row was and if one did not only have pitch were the specialist unfriendly but had equal the last renting payment verschlampt or dispatched one simply and regarded one from above down. Women are very skillfully if them from the social editor something to have would like. At that time still possible, today comes it was directly into the dwelling and looks after whether one something really needs, also into the cabinets looked and each area examine-understandably already in addition, entwuerdigend, one feels as property of the state, perhaps is one also, because it also legally the assistance receiver exists the right to control in such a way in its private sectors, is available it the state nearly unhindered thus somehow. A problem is it in any case once the achievements of the state to receive straight for a human being-worthy life of which in the Basic Law is embodied which in addition, not the reality corresponds and then however again the right of the state on private control which the human being-worthy life opposes, from the unfriendly and goennerischen treatment by specialists completely apart.
At that time a woman brought a cushion also, from her child versifft, and held it for the specialist before the nose. There they smell times, I need an in any case new cushion. Another meant with blip that voice, I white not how much color I for the dwelling need, but they can measure certainly best and smiled soul-calmly. I am safe, her from compassion a higher amount paid off got, because Sozilahilfeempfaenger can count very well and know where them the cheapest color to get very exactly to be able. To financial matters in a later block. A specialist has mostly no notion of it. Once I had to have the luck a specialist from the left probably autonomous scene, normally am I no friend of it, generously got I nearly the whole household in monetary value already soon offered, her wiess me
whereupon which I would have to still need. It came out a beautiful sum, which I also actually got and which we could need also for all kinds of beautiful things, micht absolutely only for the household. Another woman, who had to start really also from the beginning and nothing had, did not even receive a washing machine with the reason, it, the specialist for her three children also with nothing to begin would have had.
The money of the state stands for one too if one really nothing has and up to now have I always the experience made that one also actually gets money and on it a little live can. I got 150 DM that with my three children per week am today 75 euro. Now I receive alone for me alone per week 60 euro, that am approx.. 120 DM, an increase around nearly 50 %.
The older the children become the more simply are it. With small children one hardly comes through, the needs is higher, the meals must differently be prepared and the school cost itself properly much money and the dress sizes to change constantly. The costs are higher and there with small children had we at the end of the month nothing more and waited always sehnlichst the next money off. Today however the subsidies with the Hartz4 rose. A condition that was nerve-racking and with the human being-worthy life to agree is not. One saves and turns and turns and it does not hand nevertheless not, one waits for the next money, also this is enough not, mostly is like that, if money is that then all fall themselves on the meal purchase, buys z.T indiscriminately around the lack of purchase of the last 2 weeks again to make, gets everything there in 2 to 3 days after around then again into the lack of purchase to drop back and on next money day wait. I had to divide tried and have that also during good organization the money is not enough nearly and one can use still considered like one still more efficiently the money, one become determined proper creatively, also my oldest son considered myself, before 20 years was that, how he could spend 1 DM most effectively. He was allowed to buy for 1DM an ice, came back with an ice, a role of drops and a chocolate latch plate, everything for DM, he was very proud on this increase. A little one would like to have stop of the life, thus for bathing we drove and ice we always always ate, for it with roasting potatoes and Spagettie too however often brought and little meat and always the cheapest sausage. At that time we had dress money a little spent on dresses otherwise for toys. My today still another whole crate with Legos, Playmobile and railway has sons. Each quantity star Trek play maps and then the Transformer and other figures. Everything was expensive and from the dress money at that time was financed, but my children were not so well dressed which back problems with itself brought. A woman with 7 children attracted her children always tip top, nobody should see that their children are poor and come from a child-rich family, actually also reasonably. We already went to toys to the red cross to the expenditure for play and us give free of charge to have let. Completely at the beginning one got even flour and butter given, the EEC had an enormous butter mountain, which the social receivers should abfuttern.
I thought always that I, if the children are large, will find out out this social case and independently live can without this fault of dependent and asking plates. The law says something else however to feel and feels does one something else. I know the difference if one work and if one is unemployed, if one is unmarried, if one is together with a Partener, if one is alone with children, wennn one in the university works, whom<<<<<<<< snip >>>>>>>>
Donnerstag, 16. August 2007
Source:http://vorort.bund.net/hochrhein/projekte_dinkelbergerleben.html
Holiday in Höllstein im Wiesental
If you like to have a special holiday far away from stress and touristic in the Markgräfler country near Swizerland and France is the best place for you.
Hoellstein is a little Village in the wellknown Markgräfler country in south germany near swizerland and france. Höllstein has a home mountain socalled Dinkelberg , very good for walking or taking a piknic. In Höllstein you can do a long walk along the little river Wiese or you can take a rest , sitting and looking the natur around the river and country. Höllstein has an interesting geological history and it is a partial place of the municipality stones in the district Loerrach. From here there are numerous trip possibilities to the adjacent countries and to the close deep Black Forest. The well-known Markgraeflerland with its impressing beautiful country and the good wine and old tradition . The field mountain for ski running in the winter. The village offers all important shops you need, but it is also far away from touristik stress without overcrowded places.
Please visit http://www.steinen.de/buerger/geschichte/geschichte-hoellstein.html
Holiday in Höllstein im Wiesental
If you like to have a special holiday far away from stress and touristic in the Markgräfler country near Swizerland and France is the best place for you.
Hoellstein is a little Village in the wellknown Markgräfler country in south germany near swizerland and france. Höllstein has a home mountain socalled Dinkelberg , very good for walking or taking a piknic. In Höllstein you can do a long walk along the little river Wiese or you can take a rest , sitting and looking the natur around the river and country. Höllstein has an interesting geological history and it is a partial place of the municipality stones in the district Loerrach. From here there are numerous trip possibilities to the adjacent countries and to the close deep Black Forest. The well-known Markgraeflerland with its impressing beautiful country and the good wine and old tradition . The field mountain for ski running in the winter. The village offers all important shops you need, but it is also far away from touristik stress without overcrowded places.
Please visit http://www.steinen.de/buerger/geschichte/geschichte-hoellstein.html
Social justice
Social Justice, a key word of which up to the bones are sharpen, in the policy into the mouth it is taken again and again and as bone on the distance is put down. No questions whether it is real, all are convinced that this is to be manufactured, i.e. this social justice must be found somewhere, but where could be found. Which is the determination of fairly and socially. Is socially always also fair and fairly always social? Fair probably is that, if I become lucky with any legal open sources, if I have the option to become lucky . Is however not like that, according to my experience missing often the means and definition. Socially is nevertheless if I love a man and I am with him together that is of course luck . that is nevertheless fair and there on human level also socially. The material goods which we want to have and we then lucky feel are limited, everyone equal much for the order, not everyone is then lucky. So the measure of unfairness can be reduced by national welfare however not to eliminate, particularly since if the luck to have food is exhausted and it requires for other luck like car, or garden, or journeys, because the one does not have and the other one has. The one does not have work the other one has work. The one does not have children the other one has. If I have children and if I want , I am lucky and it is fair. Would not like other children and gets also none is also fair and it is also lucky, other however no children and want children to have is unfair and he is unfortunate. Justice is thus always connected with luck with the social and the material. Children, marriages, love ,work, house and garden and its goals constitute humans as a society, determine him in his relationship to the othes , create however no equality but build a proportionateness. Because socially and fairly concerns not only the material values but also the human values. If single educating are affected by discriminations, if fears decrease their quality of life, if social welfare assistance certificate an inability , if the social relationship becomes a non relationship, then we have no social justice more ,only a material support, no more. Kindergarden places and educating money und..und.. and. all super and importantly for the material life but also important for single mothers is to fight against arbitrary child withdrawal, fight against intimidation and minor making of single-educating. But also important is the knowledge, that there are humans who has not only problems and mistakes but also have capacities, resources and intelligence and those have to be promoted to be able to give this human capital finally their children ,that is socially fair and juctice
Calltec
Calltec
Education at home with free online courses
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Under this column you find training further possibilities in the Internet, free naturally, which I found. I think that many of you want to make themselves independent and have also no money . Thus one must explore and auto didactically learn side way. Or one has better chances then on the job market Here one learns really everything approximately around the web pages, Flash and much other more. Only in English one should be so far fit that one understands most important applications.
W3Schools you find all the Web building tutorials you need, from basic HTML and XHTML to advanced XML, SQL, DATA cousin, Multimedia and WAP. A few knowledges of web is worthwhile itself to acquire itself, for the personal record of advantage. The employer sees that selfinitiative behind it puts and naturally extended knowledge.
http://www.spanisch live.de For all to acquire itself here free on-line of language courses inclusive audio files for Realplayer would like the Spanish of basic knowledge.
http://www.post.ch/de/index/uk_geschaeftskunden/pm_directpoint/pm_dp_dm Free on-line courses are offered by Swiss post office. Among them also a telephone marketing course. Everything well arranged and like I Swiss knows also of good Quailtaet. It is worth also there to look themselves and learn.
www.Flash4all.de For me absolutely unclearly, but who has time can itself therein deepen and nearly become a specialist in any case excitingly . In addition there is still the www.Flashforum.de the poeple knows very much. Thus much fun with the further training for today.
Under this column you find training further possibilities in the Internet, free naturally, which I found. I think that many of you want to make themselves independent and have also no money . Thus one must explore and auto didactically learn side way. Or one has better chances then on the job market Here one learns really everything approximately around the web pages, Flash and much other more. Only in English one should be so far fit that one understands most important applications.
W3Schools you find all the Web building tutorials you need, from basic HTML and XHTML to advanced XML, SQL, DATA cousin, Multimedia and WAP. A few knowledges of web is worthwhile itself to acquire itself, for the personal record of advantage. The employer sees that selfinitiative behind it puts and naturally extended knowledge.
http://www.spanisch live.de For all to acquire itself here free on-line of language courses inclusive audio files for Realplayer would like the Spanish of basic knowledge.
http://www.post.ch/de/index/uk_geschaeftskunden/pm_directpoint/pm_dp_dm Free on-line courses are offered by Swiss post office. Among them also a telephone marketing course. Everything well arranged and like I Swiss knows also of good Quailtaet. It is worth also there to look themselves and learn.
www.Flash4all.de For me absolutely unclearly, but who has time can itself therein deepen and nearly become a specialist in any case excitingly . In addition there is still the www.Flashforum.de the poeple knows very much. Thus much fun with the further training for today.
Mittwoch, 15. August 2007
social welfare
want to report not very much negative have I nevertheless very often of this institution lived to my disappointment. Here I would like to say to all young people the fact that they should absolutely try independently from social welfare assistance to live and everything at work to rather assume which them in such a way over the way runs or which leaves place of residence differently to work over somewhere or training make. My experiences are these that if once begun one back-slips again and again, for different reasons also for these reasons that one becomes acquainted with humans from this situation those not to accept does not want the fact that one would like to change its own situation and to try with strange excuses to block, often is it also under-conscious procedures, often in addition, job market caused causes. It is extremely heavily to be separated from social welfare assistance too and one should as well as possible try this assistance never to occur, if it is possible. Me the reasons are well-known very good and a mother with little children can not go to a job ,make them already at home enough, unemployed people, ill humans, frustratd humans. In addition, as many young humans.
Before 20 years I was for the first time with the social welfare, the house where one money I can get. I had before at all no notion of it, my parents always lived from work and everything else was evenly welfare service of cases which we helped however otherwise nothing to do had. My parents were war children and had always fear of life, it did not give child benefit and not this social welfare assistance like today. Who did not work stood on the road and lived on welfare service, was called also in an emergency in put down in old trains. I have seen it.Or they lived in poor social accommodations. My parents were accustomed to love with very little, still little today have they the habit to eat dry bread with a piece of sausage. To choose a work or something was luxury . Already very modern my father decided that my mother has to cooperates, wanted to earn also the money otherwise not have been enough, it found however anyway that the woman must cooperate also for the family. My mother meant, he had been a communist, today he as a left one had been surely designated, but in truth he is for over 60 years in the German SPD, Social party. It participated also as itself first directly after the war in the Esperanto Organisation. Strange to say right after war disliked humans from different countries together did and organized Camps. Thus my parents did not got money from other institutions and did not know also social welfare assistance, the consideration or security that one could live also without work does not work. The fear of life of my parents accompanied me, since I however well was, i.e. that I did not know a fear around dwelling and work took I that always today I know the social welfare assistance scene of 4 cities. In former times the corridors were long and dark and dirtily. Hundreds of humans collected themselves there always, all full smoke and stickig, who were few wood banks occupied and one stood and waited, children, babies, old person, young people, homeless person etc.. One waited to one at the row was and if one did not only have pitch were the specialist unfriendly but had equal the last renting payment lost or dispatched one simply and regarded one from above down. Women are very skillfully if them from the social editor something to have would like. At that time still possible, today a woman comes it was directly into the dwelling and looks after whether one something really needs, also into the cabinets looked and each area examine-understandably already in addition, without humans right, one feels as property of the state, perhaps is one also, because it also legally the assistance receiver exists the right to control in such a way in its private sectors, is available it the state nearly without stop thus somehow. A problem is it in any case once the achievements of the state to receive straight for a human being-worthy life of which in the Basic Law is embodied which in addition, not the reality corresponds and then however again the right of the state on private control which the human being-worthy life opposes, from the unfriendly treatment by specialists completely apart.
At that time a woman brought a cushion also, from her child made dirty, and held it the specialist infront of his nose. Here you can smell, she said, I need a in any case new cushion. Another meant with blip that voice, I do not know how much color I for the dwelling need, but you can measure certainly best and smiled soul-calmly. I am sure, she got an higher amount paid off, because people who receive welfare can count very well and know where them the cheapest color to get very exactly to be able. To financial matters in a later block. An assistance has mostly no notion of it. Once I had to have the luck a woman in the welfare from the left probably autonomous scene, normally I am no friend of it, generously got I nearly the whole household in monetary value already soon offered, she showed me
whereupon which I would have to still need. It came out a beautiful sum, which I also actually got and which we could need also for all kinds of beautiful things, not absolutely only for the household. Another woman, who had to start really also from the beginning and nothing had, did not even receive a washing machine with the reason, it, the welfare assistant also had to start with nothing.
The money of the state stands for one too if one really nothing has and up to now have I always the experience made that one also actually gets money and on it a little live can. I got 150 DM that with my three children per week am today 75 Euro. Now I receive alone for me alone per week 60 Euro, that 120 DM, an increase around nearly 50 %.
The older the children become the more simply are it. With small children one hardly can live, the needs are higher, the meals must differently be prepared and the school cost itself properly much money and the dress sizes to change constantly. The costs are higher and there with small children had we at the end of the month nothing more and waited always sehnlichst the next money off. A condition that was nerve-racking and with the human being-worthy life to agree is not. One saves and turns and turns and it does not hand nevertheless not, one waits for the next money, also this is enough not, mostly is like that, if money is that then all fall themselves on the meal purchase, buys z.T indiscriminately around the lack of purchase of the last 2 weeks again to make, gets everything there in 2 to 3 days after around then again into the lack of purchase to drop back and on next money day wait. I had to divide tried and have that also during good organization the money is not enough nearly and one can use still considered like one still more efficiently the money, one become determined proper creatively, also my oldest son considered myself, before 20 years was that, how he could spend 1 DM most effectively. He was allowed to buy for 1 DM an ice, came back with an ice, a role of drops and a chocolate latch plate, everything for 1 DM, he was very proud on this increase. A little one would like to have fun of the life, thus for bathing we drove and ice we always ate, for it with roasting potatoes and Spagettie too however often brought and little meat and always the cheapest sausage. At that time we had dress money a little spent on dresses otherwise for toys. Today stil we have Legos, Playmobile and railway from my sons. Each quantity star Trek play maps and then the Transformer and other figures. Everything was expensive and from the dress money at that time was financed, but my children were not so well dressed which back problems with itself brought. A woman with 7 children attracted her children always tip top, nobody should see that their children are poor and come from a child-rich family, actually also reasonably. We already went to toys to the red cross to the expenditure for play and us give free of charge to have let. Completely at the beginning one got even flour and butter given, the EU had an enormous butter mountain, which the social receivers should eat.
I thought always that I, if the children are large, will find out this social case and independently can live without this fault of dependent and asking plates. The law says something else however to feel and feels does one something else. I know the difference if one work and if one is unemployed, if one is unmarried, if one is together with a Partner, if one is alone with children, if one in the university works, if one works as a cleaningwoman, if one sits with the professor in the car and if one sits in the car with production aid. There are worlds in between and the social justice is still there highest if one its Exkremente become loose must. Worlds in which one as diploma and its results of working speak may with the following lunch and but also still money receives. Worlds in which one chord flashes must and still not once an opportunity has , worlds down in which one in the cellar its Gardarobe has and its working material and in the cellar again puts, to worlds in which one its butter bread thereby has or however into tracing into a cafe goes. Social welfare assistance is always a world in those humans waits, stands and waits and hopes that they are not unfriendly treated because it to know that they are dependent on it and must if necessary also unfriendly to be treated be able. Humans the also good condition to have must and a good cycle, because long standing requires. In a sozialamt one had a kindergarden furnished so that the children during the waiting period was supplied. A good thing.
Today the areas partial became, more brightly and smaller and more cleanly, the person on social security look friendlier today also not more as in former times, he more maintained became and have briefcases or coverings thereby, the papers are arranged. No loud music more, no cigarette smoke, loud talking, like:He Vadder, does not today gives money. It already changed some. However long control rooms, the dependence on the specialists remained alike, and evenly the dependence on money one is entitled, which one also receives, never is however never and enough for a normal life. Mothers with babies have to have still waited with the others and much too long Und the feeling of dependence and it have not reached the goal in the life are always the same. The possible working-years are now going now to end, the chances are small and where one could still have entered is also passed there are no more 20 years in which one its condition still normalize can, therefore look one for further resources, if in addition,but if these will not work, too, what then? I also say, the world a piece became more unfair, or not? Social welfare assistance is vitally necessary, makes however no fun. The fact that one wants to be able to live tried out to come around normal, first of all, this its children save is worthwhile.
The 1.50 euro jobs in Germany of which I was still-convinced at first, I do not find now very efficiently above all not if one am already older. What a nonsense with fifty years old still for small children to watch out , where one is glad that the own are finite from this situation one. For young people looks again differently, it can a vocational perspective open or strengthening the occupation choice. Strictly speaking however unemployed person, poor humans as cheap workers used by those who makes profit at money only not the unemployed .
In addition, from unemployment to come out, it is heavy not yet so much was made, not really. The re-education are an effective means, which are sponsered training, likewise, nevertheless still too few organized are already offered however much. Many do not know however like it somewhat converted to be supposed and I have the experience made with far qualifications to become nevertheless again employed that one must succeed properly around to receive which one wants well and then. With foreign stays one is also posed on itself alone, also there I made the experience that much is offered, also for specialist consultation, but one nevertheless again to go can do because this is not and because that one must confer one nevertheless and at all is anyway much too heavy and one is to remain where one rather is.
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Before 20 years I was for the first time with the social welfare, the house where one money I can get. I had before at all no notion of it, my parents always lived from work and everything else was evenly welfare service of cases which we helped however otherwise nothing to do had. My parents were war children and had always fear of life, it did not give child benefit and not this social welfare assistance like today. Who did not work stood on the road and lived on welfare service, was called also in an emergency in put down in old trains. I have seen it.Or they lived in poor social accommodations. My parents were accustomed to love with very little, still little today have they the habit to eat dry bread with a piece of sausage. To choose a work or something was luxury . Already very modern my father decided that my mother has to cooperates, wanted to earn also the money otherwise not have been enough, it found however anyway that the woman must cooperate also for the family. My mother meant, he had been a communist, today he as a left one had been surely designated, but in truth he is for over 60 years in the German SPD, Social party. It participated also as itself first directly after the war in the Esperanto Organisation. Strange to say right after war disliked humans from different countries together did and organized Camps. Thus my parents did not got money from other institutions and did not know also social welfare assistance, the consideration or security that one could live also without work does not work. The fear of life of my parents accompanied me, since I however well was, i.e. that I did not know a fear around dwelling and work took I that always today I know the social welfare assistance scene of 4 cities. In former times the corridors were long and dark and dirtily. Hundreds of humans collected themselves there always, all full smoke and stickig, who were few wood banks occupied and one stood and waited, children, babies, old person, young people, homeless person etc.. One waited to one at the row was and if one did not only have pitch were the specialist unfriendly but had equal the last renting payment lost or dispatched one simply and regarded one from above down. Women are very skillfully if them from the social editor something to have would like. At that time still possible, today a woman comes it was directly into the dwelling and looks after whether one something really needs, also into the cabinets looked and each area examine-understandably already in addition, without humans right, one feels as property of the state, perhaps is one also, because it also legally the assistance receiver exists the right to control in such a way in its private sectors, is available it the state nearly without stop thus somehow. A problem is it in any case once the achievements of the state to receive straight for a human being-worthy life of which in the Basic Law is embodied which in addition, not the reality corresponds and then however again the right of the state on private control which the human being-worthy life opposes, from the unfriendly treatment by specialists completely apart.
At that time a woman brought a cushion also, from her child made dirty, and held it the specialist infront of his nose. Here you can smell, she said, I need a in any case new cushion. Another meant with blip that voice, I do not know how much color I for the dwelling need, but you can measure certainly best and smiled soul-calmly. I am sure, she got an higher amount paid off, because people who receive welfare can count very well and know where them the cheapest color to get very exactly to be able. To financial matters in a later block. An assistance has mostly no notion of it. Once I had to have the luck a woman in the welfare from the left probably autonomous scene, normally I am no friend of it, generously got I nearly the whole household in monetary value already soon offered, she showed me
whereupon which I would have to still need. It came out a beautiful sum, which I also actually got and which we could need also for all kinds of beautiful things, not absolutely only for the household. Another woman, who had to start really also from the beginning and nothing had, did not even receive a washing machine with the reason, it, the welfare assistant also had to start with nothing.
The money of the state stands for one too if one really nothing has and up to now have I always the experience made that one also actually gets money and on it a little live can. I got 150 DM that with my three children per week am today 75 Euro. Now I receive alone for me alone per week 60 Euro, that 120 DM, an increase around nearly 50 %.
The older the children become the more simply are it. With small children one hardly can live, the needs are higher, the meals must differently be prepared and the school cost itself properly much money and the dress sizes to change constantly. The costs are higher and there with small children had we at the end of the month nothing more and waited always sehnlichst the next money off. A condition that was nerve-racking and with the human being-worthy life to agree is not. One saves and turns and turns and it does not hand nevertheless not, one waits for the next money, also this is enough not, mostly is like that, if money is that then all fall themselves on the meal purchase, buys z.T indiscriminately around the lack of purchase of the last 2 weeks again to make, gets everything there in 2 to 3 days after around then again into the lack of purchase to drop back and on next money day wait. I had to divide tried and have that also during good organization the money is not enough nearly and one can use still considered like one still more efficiently the money, one become determined proper creatively, also my oldest son considered myself, before 20 years was that, how he could spend 1 DM most effectively. He was allowed to buy for 1 DM an ice, came back with an ice, a role of drops and a chocolate latch plate, everything for 1 DM, he was very proud on this increase. A little one would like to have fun of the life, thus for bathing we drove and ice we always ate, for it with roasting potatoes and Spagettie too however often brought and little meat and always the cheapest sausage. At that time we had dress money a little spent on dresses otherwise for toys. Today stil we have Legos, Playmobile and railway from my sons. Each quantity star Trek play maps and then the Transformer and other figures. Everything was expensive and from the dress money at that time was financed, but my children were not so well dressed which back problems with itself brought. A woman with 7 children attracted her children always tip top, nobody should see that their children are poor and come from a child-rich family, actually also reasonably. We already went to toys to the red cross to the expenditure for play and us give free of charge to have let. Completely at the beginning one got even flour and butter given, the EU had an enormous butter mountain, which the social receivers should eat.
I thought always that I, if the children are large, will find out this social case and independently can live without this fault of dependent and asking plates. The law says something else however to feel and feels does one something else. I know the difference if one work and if one is unemployed, if one is unmarried, if one is together with a Partner, if one is alone with children, if one in the university works, if one works as a cleaningwoman, if one sits with the professor in the car and if one sits in the car with production aid. There are worlds in between and the social justice is still there highest if one its Exkremente become loose must. Worlds in which one as diploma and its results of working speak may with the following lunch and but also still money receives. Worlds in which one chord flashes must and still not once an opportunity has , worlds down in which one in the cellar its Gardarobe has and its working material and in the cellar again puts, to worlds in which one its butter bread thereby has or however into tracing into a cafe goes. Social welfare assistance is always a world in those humans waits, stands and waits and hopes that they are not unfriendly treated because it to know that they are dependent on it and must if necessary also unfriendly to be treated be able. Humans the also good condition to have must and a good cycle, because long standing requires. In a sozialamt one had a kindergarden furnished so that the children during the waiting period was supplied. A good thing.
Today the areas partial became, more brightly and smaller and more cleanly, the person on social security look friendlier today also not more as in former times, he more maintained became and have briefcases or coverings thereby, the papers are arranged. No loud music more, no cigarette smoke, loud talking, like:He Vadder, does not today gives money. It already changed some. However long control rooms, the dependence on the specialists remained alike, and evenly the dependence on money one is entitled, which one also receives, never is however never and enough for a normal life. Mothers with babies have to have still waited with the others and much too long Und the feeling of dependence and it have not reached the goal in the life are always the same. The possible working-years are now going now to end, the chances are small and where one could still have entered is also passed there are no more 20 years in which one its condition still normalize can, therefore look one for further resources, if in addition,but if these will not work, too, what then? I also say, the world a piece became more unfair, or not? Social welfare assistance is vitally necessary, makes however no fun. The fact that one wants to be able to live tried out to come around normal, first of all, this its children save is worthwhile.
The 1.50 euro jobs in Germany of which I was still-convinced at first, I do not find now very efficiently above all not if one am already older. What a nonsense with fifty years old still for small children to watch out , where one is glad that the own are finite from this situation one. For young people looks again differently, it can a vocational perspective open or strengthening the occupation choice. Strictly speaking however unemployed person, poor humans as cheap workers used by those who makes profit at money only not the unemployed .
In addition, from unemployment to come out, it is heavy not yet so much was made, not really. The re-education are an effective means, which are sponsered training, likewise, nevertheless still too few organized are already offered however much. Many do not know however like it somewhat converted to be supposed and I have the experience made with far qualifications to become nevertheless again employed that one must succeed properly around to receive which one wants well and then. With foreign stays one is also posed on itself alone, also there I made the experience that much is offered, also for specialist consultation, but one nevertheless again to go can do because this is not and because that one must confer one nevertheless and at all is anyway much too heavy and one is to remain where one rather is.
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when mothers are overtaxed
Report is to read in :
Umweltjournal.de | Familie und Kinder | Artikel Nr.: 12635 Michael Stiefel
Early warning system for children without fathers
Around it directly in front to say not only the children of single-educating need an early warning system.
In according to create a new law, Berlin. It concerns that the scope for discretion goes from youth welfare offices strongly increased . Around child damage in the a singlemother family, during father connection lacking is rather the readiness of the fathers about the new generation to worry. Apparently the fathers as rather suitably seen to substitute if the mother is overtaxed. Which is seen as excessive demand, is´nt discussed yet, but it aims clearly at the alone-educating role with its indispositions, the however-educating is located in the center of possible child damages, is thus praediction for it. Parents autonomy in kind . Without family-judicial control such interferences would out-lever otherwise the parents right completely and in the discretion of partly unsatisfactorily trained authority coworkers would place. My opinion refers to contents of the article. The word excessive demand is used gladly with however-educating, but which mother is not overtaxed? Household, occupation, children, school, homework and occupation are multiple Tasking tasks depending upon ability to be settled. But with the excessive demand one does not confess to the mother a success of its tasks to which however only to a small subrange applies. If one suggests it however the fact that she is overtaxed and unable, which is meant also with it believes the father could prove, not even keeps now the task of everything to that to make better to be able than the mother. Is it correct in addition? And also does a damage of the child accompany with an excessive demand? And if the child is damaged, or it is abused an indication of overtaxed of the mother? Or nevertheless rather a damaged psyche, or disturbed relationship with the child? And particularly it occurs in a mother families does that one must treat that separately? Fathers who are long time separeted from mother and child not already have a routine in child education or family, must again orient themselves and have large difficulties thereby. If youth welfare offices coworkers send also before-calm opinions over however-educating into a family and this corresponds to the conceptions not completely , it comes very fast to the result of an excessive demand, the father may again the familiar guide roller take over and the mother, I do not know what will happen with her. Therapy or hospital or otherwise possibly something. Didn't any party in Germany want a close network to twist with offices, schools, labour office and youth welfare office and office for citizen and then over the mothers to throw? The question arises again and again. As it comes that in a society so many children are taken away from their mothers, and that a society is so unsatisfactory that it must apparent lose so many children.
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Umweltjournal.de | Familie und Kinder | Artikel Nr.: 12635 Michael Stiefel
Early warning system for children without fathers
Around it directly in front to say not only the children of single-educating need an early warning system.
In according to create a new law, Berlin. It concerns that the scope for discretion goes from youth welfare offices strongly increased . Around child damage in the a singlemother family, during father connection lacking is rather the readiness of the fathers about the new generation to worry. Apparently the fathers as rather suitably seen to substitute if the mother is overtaxed. Which is seen as excessive demand, is´nt discussed yet, but it aims clearly at the alone-educating role with its indispositions, the however-educating is located in the center of possible child damages, is thus praediction for it. Parents autonomy in kind . Without family-judicial control such interferences would out-lever otherwise the parents right completely and in the discretion of partly unsatisfactorily trained authority coworkers would place. My opinion refers to contents of the article. The word excessive demand is used gladly with however-educating, but which mother is not overtaxed? Household, occupation, children, school, homework and occupation are multiple Tasking tasks depending upon ability to be settled. But with the excessive demand one does not confess to the mother a success of its tasks to which however only to a small subrange applies. If one suggests it however the fact that she is overtaxed and unable, which is meant also with it believes the father could prove, not even keeps now the task of everything to that to make better to be able than the mother. Is it correct in addition? And also does a damage of the child accompany with an excessive demand? And if the child is damaged, or it is abused an indication of overtaxed of the mother? Or nevertheless rather a damaged psyche, or disturbed relationship with the child? And particularly it occurs in a mother families does that one must treat that separately? Fathers who are long time separeted from mother and child not already have a routine in child education or family, must again orient themselves and have large difficulties thereby. If youth welfare offices coworkers send also before-calm opinions over however-educating into a family and this corresponds to the conceptions not completely , it comes very fast to the result of an excessive demand, the father may again the familiar guide roller take over and the mother, I do not know what will happen with her. Therapy or hospital or otherwise possibly something. Didn't any party in Germany want a close network to twist with offices, schools, labour office and youth welfare office and office for citizen and then over the mothers to throw? The question arises again and again. As it comes that in a society so many children are taken away from their mothers, and that a society is so unsatisfactory that it must apparent lose so many children.
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Dienstag, 14. August 2007
If mothers extracts themselves
children are sometimes not extracted but are simply left alone . The mother want but does not be able however because she takes drugs and this craze is stronger than her children. If mothers leave their children three days alone, then to come briefly past and completely certainly again to come and she promises but nevertheless she never comes back. If the last good act consists of it the child a last mark a glass juice to give over and then go, then tears flow around the mother and about the child and and the child is not only disappointed but also broken. A good accommodation does not make this loss again good and one knows not from where the child still for confidence to have . The children must be supplied and nevertheless must also everything be tried the mother to get back to their children , if one creates it or not.
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women projects
Today I would like to present: http://www.yedid.org.il/ a well structured organization with many meaningful offers. To improve the independence to make courses around vocational abilities. General rights, rights of immigrants, of female workers will represent, also literature programs, thus everything which for own advancement supported consultation with financial problems. Volunteer activities. I think it offer many suggestions around own projects to base and own ideas further to develop. I find important too, if however-educating or unmarried women schould not only be organized but also organize themselves.
.http://momsrising.org one ever more largely becoming private organization approximately around the topic family, child and mother. Has many networks and I find that exemplary.
2.http://nbwctucson.org a Initiative for homeless, thus homeless people of children and mothers, in very friendly colors, brightly and pleasantly.
3.http://www.thepioneerwoman.com/confessions_of_a_pioneer_/ Housewife in the middle under cowboys, children and Ranch. Much has to report , interesting with original recepts of the Ranch. Makes fun. 4.http://www.newsline.com.pk/NewsMar2005/success1.htm A report on women and szccess. The special one to it, it concerns women of Pakistan. We hope basically that they are not be punished by stones. 5.http://www.upenn.edu/gazette/0507/feature2sidebar.html Also an article of mothers who are working and how does it work with children. Only text however it is interesting for findig its own solution. 6.http://www.torah.org/features/wperspective/success.html A Rebezzin speaks about the today's woman understanding in relationship with religion. Women are evenly pragmatic.
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.http://momsrising.org one ever more largely becoming private organization approximately around the topic family, child and mother. Has many networks and I find that exemplary.
2.http://nbwctucson.org a Initiative for homeless, thus homeless people of children and mothers, in very friendly colors, brightly and pleasantly.
3.http://www.thepioneerwoman.com/confessions_of_a_pioneer_/ Housewife in the middle under cowboys, children and Ranch. Much has to report , interesting with original recepts of the Ranch. Makes fun. 4.http://www.newsline.com.pk/NewsMar2005/success1.htm A report on women and szccess. The special one to it, it concerns women of Pakistan. We hope basically that they are not be punished by stones. 5.http://www.upenn.edu/gazette/0507/feature2sidebar.html Also an article of mothers who are working and how does it work with children. Only text however it is interesting for findig its own solution. 6.http://www.torah.org/features/wperspective/success.html A Rebezzin speaks about the today's woman understanding in relationship with religion. Women are evenly pragmatic.
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children taken away illegal
One finds case studies of unauthorized children's denial by youth welfare offices a thousand of kinds, as well the subject is treated on television and in books.
Only there seems to be no improvement, the children are taken away funnily from families and their destinations are unknown, is not published in spite of law order . parents resp. Mothers supplies in psychiatry. A case of other carrying over has happened with family Condreanu see under www.codreanu.de, also there for years television, interview, reports and Petititionen. It brings nothing if to authorities so autonomous, monopoly and independently can act. Also I recognize as a nonprofessional that it itself around laws gray areas trades probably in the constitution no place wanted to have thought and have the children with their(her) mothers rather outside accordingly also.
One does not have to refer also to Argentien, Chile, former DDR or Cuba, one knows that also mothers go even there on the roads in order to protest. "where are our children " What is to be done thus? Due to these massive cases it is nevertheless completely clear that the monopoly and the independence of the youth welfare offices must be waived, and completely clearly in laws and the condition must be regulated. An independent Institution like 2. ethics commision distributes in any case examines child withdrawel after condition-technical guidelines, after human, after medical, after legal, after psychological, after ethical and above all family-receiving guidelines. And if the child is older, to even decide can refer, also the decisions of the child. The youth welfare offices schould not be able to make decisions any longer alone in such a way. And this 2nd human right or Ethik Commision should be represented also with the European Court of Justice and in the UN, because illegal child extractions are everywhere to find. It is a luck thing of energy of the mother to accuse youth welfare offices with the European Court of Justice to be complained and also right. The mother is mostly leached out by the psychological fears and agonies, but not psychologically ill. In many countries there is no right to destruct human or to break their psychical constitution or made around it into the psychiatry. That is belonged a violation of the constitution and democracy. Governing ones in a democracy with the finger to violations of human rights into other countries to show are to point also courageously with the finger to the own country people law breakings. Thus, immediately a reformation of the youth welfare offices and their laws, transparency with accommodation of the children, previous hearing of parents, common regenerating of the problems without discriminations or reduction of the persons. Because also in these cases applies still those became humans also right on impartial hearing.
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Only there seems to be no improvement, the children are taken away funnily from families and their destinations are unknown, is not published in spite of law order . parents resp. Mothers supplies in psychiatry. A case of other carrying over has happened with family Condreanu see under www.codreanu.de, also there for years television, interview, reports and Petititionen. It brings nothing if to authorities so autonomous, monopoly and independently can act. Also I recognize as a nonprofessional that it itself around laws gray areas trades probably in the constitution no place wanted to have thought and have the children with their(her) mothers rather outside accordingly also.
One does not have to refer also to Argentien, Chile, former DDR or Cuba, one knows that also mothers go even there on the roads in order to protest. "where are our children " What is to be done thus? Due to these massive cases it is nevertheless completely clear that the monopoly and the independence of the youth welfare offices must be waived, and completely clearly in laws and the condition must be regulated. An independent Institution like 2. ethics commision distributes in any case examines child withdrawel after condition-technical guidelines, after human, after medical, after legal, after psychological, after ethical and above all family-receiving guidelines. And if the child is older, to even decide can refer, also the decisions of the child. The youth welfare offices schould not be able to make decisions any longer alone in such a way. And this 2nd human right or Ethik Commision should be represented also with the European Court of Justice and in the UN, because illegal child extractions are everywhere to find. It is a luck thing of energy of the mother to accuse youth welfare offices with the European Court of Justice to be complained and also right. The mother is mostly leached out by the psychological fears and agonies, but not psychologically ill. In many countries there is no right to destruct human or to break their psychical constitution or made around it into the psychiatry. That is belonged a violation of the constitution and democracy. Governing ones in a democracy with the finger to violations of human rights into other countries to show are to point also courageously with the finger to the own country people law breakings. Thus, immediately a reformation of the youth welfare offices and their laws, transparency with accommodation of the children, previous hearing of parents, common regenerating of the problems without discriminations or reduction of the persons. Because also in these cases applies still those became humans also right on impartial hearing.
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case study
On 29.6.2006 old Alex was taken away of 3 days by provisional disposal (decision) at the request of the youth welfare office Düsseldorf of his(its) handicapped mother. The court(dish) granted to the application(motion) of the youth welfare office - without preliminary warning - without hearing of the mother - without certificate...
my son kenny is since 14 months in one 5day care by the youth welfare office Koblenz because the mother and child connection(affair) is too close and youth welfare office my son thereby does not believe that could become independent. I have turned on a lawyer because I this find ridiculously it in Germany liable to penalty everything is if man(husband) for his(its) child it does with it to him goes well.
my son kenny is since 14 months in one 5day care by the youth welfare office Koblenz because the mother and child connection(affair) is too close and youth welfare office my son thereby does not believe that could become independent. I have turned on a lawyer because I this find ridiculously it in Germany liable to penalty everything is if man(husband) for his(its) child it does with it to him goes well.
Montag, 13. August 2007
Particularly alone-educating is constantly threatened or endangered from a possible child extraction more than others. This depend very frequently on the social welfare assistance must frequently requests place and become very often criticized whether from kindergarten, school or parents or neighbours, everyone throws an eye on the mother it has itself to stereotyped ones determined. Problem families are them in any case and in such a way them will not only control but expectations are extremely highly to an alone-educating mother be placed. Most know, if they do not fulfill these threaten to child withdrawal. The women have fear and these loads did not grow, them to fight somewhere on lost place, want to have always confirmed that them good mothers are and that their child is also well nourished. If the youth welfare office is switched on often by the fathers or neighbours increases the fear constantly and it comes to unusual behavior which again as diseased behavior and inability of the mother interpreted will-will those mothers to have fear and is despaired. In a well-known case a mother had to represent their family with components , her components children were placed around herself component , it seemed very strange to her. Another mother has tried a Suizid because of her husband , she was forced to stay with her husband back otherwise the children would have taken away. Another mother away-tore it in a forced manner before court their child to bring along, her husband disappeared with the child, although on it attentively made that suspicions. In one of my cases stated by a youth welfare office, which they spoke with the chief of school and this had confirmed that my child did not go to school. This time there was other Social worker me had made attentive that that is not correct. It was untrue, indeed, the chief of school had never spoken to the youth welfare office . Mothers have fear and to often stand them alone also before court and to fight for their children and know that each second the children could be taken away. Mothers hide themselves in the forest before police and youth welfare office and tell that trembling before fear and hardly someone notice that or believe it, mothers hide themselves abroad with their children. But the self rescue action often comes too late and it comes without preliminary warning, does not only snatch but also kidnaps proper without court order the children from at home, of schools, from kindergartens, it simply any longer home is brought, the social workers have done a three-day-course how I recognize whether a child is abused and then they recognize very quick an abuse of a child or a childgroup and from one second to the others the child or children disappeared regardless of its the fact if it is true or not.In one case case they took seven children from one kindergarten group away and a long hearing in the court for several months.The parents suffered so much and the law order agreed with the parents. The socialworkers had not a qualification wether to recognize a child abuse nor to take them away. After long months the family got their children back with many traumatic losses. One teacher told here times before parents public that it recognizes immediately if a child was abused, the child eate the nails would chew and would be extremely calmly or jerkily, and in each class would be at least 4 - 6 children abused, there he was completely safe itself. Another man, mind you a man, shouted loud that one would have to punish this sow luggage. The cold fear packed me and I warn my children proper not at the nails to chew and itself asks normally to hold back, because I as alone-educating had there hardly chances. Another however-educating read out the school with its daughter, reported to me my daughter. Me was clearly in which danger we mothers live, we can our children due to a hobby analyst always lose. At that time very young Sozial worker was defended and although on a demonstration for women's rights for woman houses I was very uncertainly whether I am there also correct, because I wanted a lobby for mothers and women and not a lobby for degenerate Sozial workers. Women knew fear and before fear not correctly normally to live, them must each day again justify itself the fact that they are also really good mothers and leads also too strange Reaktionen. A mother meant once it about the child would always worry even into the school tracing around the corner to always stand that also everything is correct. If the mothers the achievement pressure too much will make, roars it mostly for nothing at all more rum, to become agressiv or leave completely the family and to suffer animal under it. They go giving also so far and in the school the teachers quite the fact that its child is impossible and they in jden case assistance need and often slips the child into the special school, support by youth welfare office is ensured. I had also often attendance of the youth welfare office and my children plus neighbour children sat at that time in a small room and looked far in the middle in the summer. Yes, and with the question whether mine would go to 7 year old son at that time already alone to the school and I answered offered it in the negative me educating assistance. Have I then also made probably knowing that I hardly a chance had. I went thus to the educating assistance, a young lady, hardly out of the child shoes out and meant that my 7 year old child was old enough to go alone to the school , scarcely 1 km is to learn or so, roads and cars and so, and it the piece for piece. I need to have fear in no case, because each child has a guardian angel, then she considered and meant, well, sometimes sleeps it also. I did not go, I wanted my child not to loose if the guardian angel that times sleep. A good acquaintance was shocked, because their 6 year old child was with the bicycle alone to the school on the way, a woman it at that time had an accident and the daughter was mentally and physically hinders .As I come to it me in an advisory manner to leave to have whether my child alone to the school go or not. And why other families do not have. And why I should endanger my child in such a manner. Mother and child with 2. Class guardian angel.
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A daily came we, i.e. my child at that time 6 years old and 7 years too late into the school, around it to make short we did not arrive there only. They had at that time in the first class a rather strict teacher also a little already older. It wanted that the children were already 10 minutes before school beginning in the class otherwise gave it a reference and an also loud annoyance with mothers and children. This mornings were we a little to and with hecticness drove later I mean children with the car to the school although these only 10 minutes footpath from at home was distant. It was already 7 minutes before school starts and the desired 10 minutes ago could we in no case keep. The traffic light was on red and we wasted again precious minutes. My son looked already fearfully into the future and I likewise. Shortdecided struck I before nevertheless rather to turn around and the 10 minutes on tomorrow to rather postpone. My children agreed with it. For this day I explained it for ill. None hats noticed.
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