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Umweltjournal.de | Familie und Kinder | Artikel Nr.: 12635 Michael Stiefel
Early warning system for children without fathers
Around it directly in front to say not only the children of single-educating need an early warning system.
In according to create a new law, Berlin. It concerns that the scope for discretion goes from youth welfare offices strongly increased . Around child damage in the a singlemother family, during father connection lacking is rather the readiness of the fathers about the new generation to worry. Apparently the fathers as rather suitably seen to substitute if the mother is overtaxed. Which is seen as excessive demand, is´nt discussed yet, but it aims clearly at the alone-educating role with its indispositions, the however-educating is located in the center of possible child damages, is thus praediction for it. Parents autonomy in kind . Without family-judicial control such interferences would out-lever otherwise the parents right completely and in the discretion of partly unsatisfactorily trained authority coworkers would place. My opinion refers to contents of the article. The word excessive demand is used gladly with however-educating, but which mother is not overtaxed? Household, occupation, children, school, homework and occupation are multiple Tasking tasks depending upon ability to be settled. But with the excessive demand one does not confess to the mother a success of its tasks to which however only to a small subrange applies. If one suggests it however the fact that she is overtaxed and unable, which is meant also with it believes the father could prove, not even keeps now the task of everything to that to make better to be able than the mother. Is it correct in addition? And also does a damage of the child accompany with an excessive demand? And if the child is damaged, or it is abused an indication of overtaxed of the mother? Or nevertheless rather a damaged psyche, or disturbed relationship with the child? And particularly it occurs in a mother families does that one must treat that separately? Fathers who are long time separeted from mother and child not already have a routine in child education or family, must again orient themselves and have large difficulties thereby. If youth welfare offices coworkers send also before-calm opinions over however-educating into a family and this corresponds to the conceptions not completely , it comes very fast to the result of an excessive demand, the father may again the familiar guide roller take over and the mother, I do not know what will happen with her. Therapy or hospital or otherwise possibly something. Didn't any party in Germany want a close network to twist with offices, schools, labour office and youth welfare office and office for citizen and then over the mothers to throw? The question arises again and again. As it comes that in a society so many children are taken away from their mothers, and that a society is so unsatisfactory that it must apparent lose so many children.
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