Particularly alone-educating is constantly threatened or endangered from a possible child extraction more than others. This depend very frequently on the social welfare assistance must frequently requests place and become very often criticized whether from kindergarten, school or parents or neighbours, everyone throws an eye on the mother it has itself to stereotyped ones determined. Problem families are them in any case and in such a way them will not only control but expectations are extremely highly to an alone-educating mother be placed. Most know, if they do not fulfill these threaten to child withdrawal. The women have fear and these loads did not grow, them to fight somewhere on lost place, want to have always confirmed that them good mothers are and that their child is also well nourished. If the youth welfare office is switched on often by the fathers or neighbours increases the fear constantly and it comes to unusual behavior which again as diseased behavior and inability of the mother interpreted will-will those mothers to have fear and is despaired. In a well-known case a mother had to represent their family with components , her components children were placed around herself component , it seemed very strange to her. Another mother has tried a Suizid because of her husband , she was forced to stay with her husband back otherwise the children would have taken away. Another mother away-tore it in a forced manner before court their child to bring along, her husband disappeared with the child, although on it attentively made that suspicions. In one of my cases stated by a youth welfare office, which they spoke with the chief of school and this had confirmed that my child did not go to school. This time there was other Social worker me had made attentive that that is not correct. It was untrue, indeed, the chief of school had never spoken to the youth welfare office . Mothers have fear and to often stand them alone also before court and to fight for their children and know that each second the children could be taken away. Mothers hide themselves in the forest before police and youth welfare office and tell that trembling before fear and hardly someone notice that or believe it, mothers hide themselves abroad with their children. But the self rescue action often comes too late and it comes without preliminary warning, does not only snatch but also kidnaps proper without court order the children from at home, of schools, from kindergartens, it simply any longer home is brought, the social workers have done a three-day-course how I recognize whether a child is abused and then they recognize very quick an abuse of a child or a childgroup and from one second to the others the child or children disappeared regardless of its the fact if it is true or not.In one case case they took seven children from one kindergarten group away and a long hearing in the court for several months.The parents suffered so much and the law order agreed with the parents. The socialworkers had not a qualification wether to recognize a child abuse nor to take them away. After long months the family got their children back with many traumatic losses. One teacher told here times before parents public that it recognizes immediately if a child was abused, the child eate the nails would chew and would be extremely calmly or jerkily, and in each class would be at least 4 - 6 children abused, there he was completely safe itself. Another man, mind you a man, shouted loud that one would have to punish this sow luggage. The cold fear packed me and I warn my children proper not at the nails to chew and itself asks normally to hold back, because I as alone-educating had there hardly chances. Another however-educating read out the school with its daughter, reported to me my daughter. Me was clearly in which danger we mothers live, we can our children due to a hobby analyst always lose. At that time very young Sozial worker was defended and although on a demonstration for women's rights for woman houses I was very uncertainly whether I am there also correct, because I wanted a lobby for mothers and women and not a lobby for degenerate Sozial workers. Women knew fear and before fear not correctly normally to live, them must each day again justify itself the fact that they are also really good mothers and leads also too strange Reaktionen. A mother meant once it about the child would always worry even into the school tracing around the corner to always stand that also everything is correct. If the mothers the achievement pressure too much will make, roars it mostly for nothing at all more rum, to become agressiv or leave completely the family and to suffer animal under it. They go giving also so far and in the school the teachers quite the fact that its child is impossible and they in jden case assistance need and often slips the child into the special school, support by youth welfare office is ensured. I had also often attendance of the youth welfare office and my children plus neighbour children sat at that time in a small room and looked far in the middle in the summer. Yes, and with the question whether mine would go to 7 year old son at that time already alone to the school and I answered offered it in the negative me educating assistance. Have I then also made probably knowing that I hardly a chance had. I went thus to the educating assistance, a young lady, hardly out of the child shoes out and meant that my 7 year old child was old enough to go alone to the school , scarcely 1 km is to learn or so, roads and cars and so, and it the piece for piece. I need to have fear in no case, because each child has a guardian angel, then she considered and meant, well, sometimes sleeps it also. I did not go, I wanted my child not to loose if the guardian angel that times sleep. A good acquaintance was shocked, because their 6 year old child was with the bicycle alone to the school on the way, a woman it at that time had an accident and the daughter was mentally and physically hinders .As I come to it me in an advisory manner to leave to have whether my child alone to the school go or not. And why other families do not have. And why I should endanger my child in such a manner. Mother and child with 2. Class guardian angel.

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